Over sensitive Little

[Guest clumsy_little]

I'm a really sensitive person but I don't show my emotions, it's just... an emotionless face. I used to be numb to most of the feelings but since the beginning of this week my emotions are all over the place. Just a slight raise in voice turn on my water works. Till now I have been blaming my stress and anxiety for the upcoming test but now I don't really know. I'm getting upset over little things, my cycle of crying at night has started again. Am I the only one who's feeling like this? Does this has something to do with lockdown or me breaking up with my previous daddy? I want to be that giggling mess again, who baby talks and finds happiness in small things especially in little space. 

 

P.S. I can't, more like don't want to slip into little space because even if I do, I end up crying till I pass out

[Guest Dandy Blob]

I'm sorry that you're having a rough time lately! I can definitely relate, I have been really sensitive lately (more so than normal) and I think it's perfectly normal to feel that way with so many uncertainties in the world right now, and a break up isn't helping the situation either.

 

Sometimes we just need to let ourselves feel those feelings, even if they are hard and not fun, ignoring them or pushing them aside often just makes matters worse in the long run. Maybe if you are able to, set aside some time to journal or get those feelings out! Talk to a friend & vent, write a note that you burn later or rip up into pieces, scream into a pillow! It might help you get those not so fun thoughts & feelings out into the world and out of your head and give you more space for other feelings to settle in.

 

Also give yourself patience & time. Break ups can be tough, and some take us longer to get over than others. Practice some self-care & do what makes you feel good for a while & see if that helps.

[Guest clumsy_little]

I'm sorry that you're having a rough time lately! I can definitely relate, I have been really sensitive lately (more so than normal) and I think it's perfectly normal to feel that way with so many uncertainties in the world right now, and a break up isn't helping the situation either.

 

Sometimes we just need to let ourselves feel those feelings, even if they are hard and not fun, ignoring them or pushing them aside often just makes matters worse in the long run. Maybe if you are able to, set aside some time to journal or get those feelings out! Talk to a friend & vent, write a note that you burn later or rip up into pieces, scream into a pillow! It might help you get those not so fun thoughts & feelings out into the world and out of your head and give you more space for other feelings to settle in.

 

Also give yourself patience & time. Break ups can be tough, and some take us longer to get over than others. Practice some self-care & do what makes you feel good for a while & see if that helps.

Thank you for the advice! I live with my family, rather nosy one so I think venting out to my friend is a better option

[MasterPhotog]

I'm sorry that you're having a rough time lately! I can definitely relate, I have been really sensitive lately (more so than normal) and I think it's perfectly normal to feel that way with so many uncertainties in the world right now, and a break up isn't helping the situation either.

 

Sometimes we just need to let ourselves feel those feelings, even if they are hard and not fun, ignoring them or pushing them aside often just makes matters worse in the long run. Maybe if you are able to, set aside some time to journal or get those feelings out! Talk to a friend & vent, write a note that you burn later or rip up into pieces, scream into a pillow! It might help you get those not so fun thoughts & feelings out into the world and out of your head and give you more space for other feelings to settle in.

 

Also give yourself patience & time. Break ups can be tough, and some take us longer to get over than others. Practice some self-care & do what makes you feel good for a while & see if that helps.

 

Great advice! I couldn't have said it better myself.  

In addition, some Daddies are simply waste of time and not worth losing a minute of sleep over. It's best to move on with more important things in life than wasting precious moments of your life over someone who didn't deserve you in the first place. Best wishes! 

 

[Guest Dandy Blob]

Thank you for the advice! I live with my family, rather nosy one so I think venting out to my friend is a better option

For sure! Maybe you could even try online journaling, something that nobody else can access but you (unless you want others to read it or give advice, of course). That way you have no physical journal for someone in your home to be snoopy & read. I am a strong advocate for GETTING THOSE FEELINGS/THOUGHTS OUT. It honestly does work more than people realize. Whether it's screaming it outside in the forest, writing it down & burning it, typing/talking to a friend. I really hope you find some happiness & peace soon, you deserve it!

 

And naturally, if you ever need just a 'stranger' to vent to I am available. Feel free to hit me up anytime.

[MasterPhotog]

For sure! Maybe you could even try online journaling, something that nobody else can access but you (unless you want others to read it or give advice, of course). That way you have no physical journal for someone in your home to be snoopy & read. I am a strong advocate for GETTING THOSE FEELINGS/THOUGHTS OUT. It honestly does work more than people realize. Whether it's screaming it outside in the forest, writing it down & burning it, typing/talking to a friend. I really hope you find some happiness & peace soon, you deserve it!

 

And naturally, if you ever need just a 'stranger' to vent to I am available. Feel free to hit me up anytime.

 

Another intelligent and caring advice! 

[Guest Dandy Blob]

Another intelligent and caring advice! 

Thank you, I try. I just hope it's actually helpful to other parties & not just helpful in my head. lol But I figure if there is a chance it will help someone even 1% it doesn't hurt to suggest it. Worst case they don't do it.