Tay212 Posted October 16, 2015 Report Posted October 16, 2015 I see lots of people online asking about how to get into little space and what to do there. I don't have no trouble with that...I just kinda live there and act big when I have to. Lately everything has been very overwhelming for me and I don't have much support system and I feel like I would be okay if I could just grow the heck up and take care of things right, but I just can't seem to grow the heck up I feel stuck. All I wanna do is play games and watch movies and eat junk food and color and go to the park and this is not good because I have lots of other stuff I should be doing and just can't seem to make myself. Sigh.
Guest QuixoticCrybaby Posted October 16, 2015 Report Posted October 16, 2015 Lately, I've been having the same problem. Even thought it seems impossible to do big girl things, I try to write down what I need to do and reward myself every time I accomplish big girl things ^.^
ziva vlad's kitten Posted October 17, 2015 Report Posted October 17, 2015 It's hard for me to be grown up sometimes too. Try starting small, do just one little grown up thing, and then when you're finished, be proud of yourself for what you have accomplished even though it was small. Then pick one more little grown up thing to do. When you mess up, learn from your mistakes, and but don't hold them against yourself. Even grown ups make mistakes sometimes, so it is ok.
Guest Rainbow Posted October 17, 2015 Report Posted October 17, 2015 i really struggle with this too. best thing i did was start a chart system to keep me motivated! i'm lucky enough to have a daddy to have for accountability but maybe it would work for you without (not sure on your status). just try to write out what you gotta do, then have a reward set for when you complete it. 1
littleapplejack Posted October 17, 2015 Report Posted October 17, 2015 well my best advice is to get yourself a "big girl pants" basically get an item or something that will help you to transform like a magical girl into adult. for me for example its perfume. i have this expensive ass perfume that makes me feel like an adult lady. so on important day - lets say college presentation i just spray this perfume when i get ready and smell of it associates in my brain with the fact that i have to be an adult today and it kinda helps...also try this technique “getting over yourself” It's never too late to start over. If you weren't happy with yesterday, try something different today. Don't stay stuck. Do better.
Guest Pouty Kitten Posted October 18, 2015 Report Posted October 18, 2015 I have the same problem from time to time. I usually make a list of my goals for the day and that helps me accomplish what I want to accomplish!
Tay212 Posted October 21, 2015 Author Report Posted October 21, 2015 Thank you for replies. I am trying to use Chore Monster to help, but I don't have a Daddy or even any friends who care, so I'm only accountable to me. I'm trying very hard to care enough about myself for that to be enough, but it's slow going
Guest PrincessPJ Posted October 21, 2015 Report Posted October 21, 2015 I feel like I need a whole weekend..., no, a week... for a little fix. I can totally relate!
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