Are Siblings/Brothers/Sisters a thing in the community?

[littlebrodanny]

Hello! I'm curious if there's a community around for siblings instead of parents/littles?

For example, I think I'm a little brother, and I'd like to find a big brother to love and care for me similar to how a Daddy would! Is that a thing that people do? I feel like I'm the only one like this, and I'd just like a big bro but idk how to search for one :c

Edited August 10, 2020 by littlebrodanny

[Guest Dandy Blob]

Honestly I have no idea, I am pretty new...but a big brother or sister sounds like fun! What a neat thing! Love to see what others say about this.

[Little kaiya]

The nice thing about DDlg is that it has many different expressions. There certainly are people here who prefer a sibling relationship to a parental/child one.

[Little kaiya]

The nice thing about DDlg is that it has many different expressions. There certainly are people here who prefer a sibling relationship to a parental/child one.

 

As for how to search for a relationship of that dynamic, well, it's the same as any other dynamic. Introduce yourself, get to know people, get involved and see what happens.

[CodeName: Trouble]

This is totally a thing ^-^ fear not, you are not alone. However, I imagine it can be a bit more difficult to come by - definetly not impossible thou! I'm a little who has a middle 'sister' who I love to bits! I wouldnt consider our relationship a romantic one exactly, but we are definetly in a relationship. She has her own partners outside of that, and I've had mine, but we are hopelessly dedicated to each other despite that   

Nether of us are switches and nether of us take a dominant role with the other, thou we do have 'house rules' that arent things we enforce with punishments, but things we ask of each other. Like drinking enough water, sleeping enough, etc. If we dont follow the 'house rules' then we talk it out, figure out why we didnt and what better decisions we can make next time and stuff like that.

 

There is nothing stopping two littles from being together   I find the relationship to be extremely pure and amazing and I love it. Some things might be important to think about thou, do you want your partner to identify fully as a little/middle? would you be okay with a switch that is a part time sibling, part time CG? do you want a dominant older sibling who 'babysits'? what would you be okay with overall from your partner? what would you be okay doing for them? make sure you know where your boundaries are and what you want out of the relationship 

 

another relationship that could totally work out is littles and pets..... who wouldnt want to have a puppy or a kitten?! What if a littles partner was their beloved and totally cute 'pet'?! point being, pretty much any combinations could work if the individuals involved keep it safe, sane, consensual, and respect the boundaries and what they are and arent okay with.   Finding someone who clicks with you is pretty much the same for all relationships - it takes time, effort, and patience.

 

 Sorry for the ramble   and good luck! 

Edited August 18, 2020 by CodeName: Trouble

[LeftyGuitar]

I know brothers and sisters are a thing. I've seen that even want a full CGL family. Mommy/Daddy, little boy and little girl and siblings. Well I have read about it anyways, but yes the idea of siblings exist in the DDLG/MDLB world.

[littlebrodanny]

Thank you all so much for the replies!! I won't quote anybody so I don't spam or anything, but if you check back, I really truly appreciate the advice! I'm going to see what I can find here, and if something comes of it, I'll figure out boundaries and what we're both hoping for out of it as it goes! This is such a sweet community, keep up the kindness and positivity!!<33

[SharkPrince]

Hey there!

Ddlg siblings are absolutely a thing, and there's quite a few people around involved in that kind of dynamic.

I myself have a 'Lil sister'. We met on here a few years back and became fast friends, that developed into a brother sister relationship and although we aren't dating (I'm monogamous and have a partner) she's very special to me.

 

I actually wrote a topic about this a year or so ago that might be of help https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/44669-ddlg-siblings-appreciation-post/?fromsearch=1

[Vampiress]

I've heard of it but not been involved in it myself. There's babysitters, too. I think some babysitters are "older" littles and middles that take on a caring and protective role.

[Kitten&Spice]

I have heard of it so it isn’t to uncommon! I think it happens more when littles don’t have a caregiver and you have at least one little who has a more protective role! I myself have been a sibling before in the community. Mainly due to me being older in little age and me just naturally being a protective and passionate little when it comes to other littles! It was also at times when other littles needed a caregiver and me being unable to fill that I just did something to help!