New Daddy in LDR

[Phoenix_777]

I guess I'll introduce myself first so hi Im Jonathan ☺ (33m) I recently got back in touch with a very old friend I hadnt spoken to in many years, and almost instantly there was an innate connection and things just clicked. Before we even realized it, We fell in love and became the amazing couple we are today. Since we got back in touch and up until here recently there had been talk of us both being into the ddlg community and talks with countless sexual innuendos indicating that we both would want to commit to it. She's expressed to me that shed never actually committed to it with anyone before (and I'm the same way) but that she wanted to start talking about our rules and exploring her little head space and for me to start punishing her for breaking said rules. Shes never been able to explore her little space with a man and would really love any advice that could help her start to realize and explore and understand her space

 

I haven't had a little before either but I think have more of a realization as who I am as a daddy..i feel it comes so naturally to me. When we got first back in contact and things started falling into place for us i found myself wanting to protect her with all I am and so naturally shes become my world and when she speaks to me its like my souls on fire and I want to show her how much of a man she makes me feel I am. It's like were magnets and the love I have for her consumes my mind and body. Even so I I'd be humbled for any advice that you can so I can be everything she deserves.

 

The main issue we have currently is the distance. Especially during this situation the world's in. We live quite literally on different continents but we are constantly in communication through fb, email, Skype etc. So wes both really appreciate any advice with a of of this.

 

We so happy to be starting our story within this community and can't wait to experience and share and learn with you all!

 

Johnathan D

[Nymph]

Aww I am so glad you guys found each other at such perfect timing (in your lives, emotionally... not covid!) Distance can actually improve communication and enrich your relationship once you are together because you will cherish every moment! Daddy and I started long distance as well.

 

Since you guys are testing the waters and kind of still finding yourself in DDlg I would suggest you do some tests and share each other results, talk about it and if there is anything you don't understand research it together and search your opinion! it will make your bond stronger and things will flow better once you are together.

 

http://bdsmtest.org

 

https://sexualalpha.com/bdsm-kink-test

 

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes

 

https://www.16personalities.com/

 

My main advice is don't forget that DDlg is just a relationship and there are no right or wrongs, just what works for each person/couple, welcome and I hope you like it here~