How do you cope when Daddy goes home and all the feels hit?

[littleprincessbbw]

Okay, so I'm very, very lucky.  Daddy lives close enough that he can spend the weekend every other weekend.  We're new so I'd not expect more than that and he is a brilliant, really thoughtful, caring Daddy.

 

He came this weekend, and after a weekend of cuddles and spankings and fun and walks.....he's gone home.  He was worried about how I would cope....which was lovely and I do feel just a bit sad.

 

I KNOW I belong to him and he is coming in two weeks time.  We talk every day.  If I'm dropping I'm to call him.  And I like my own space but tonight I just feel a bit empty and weepy.  I've tried to distract myself but it's HARD!!!!

 

Does anyone have any suggestions on coping?  

 

Any idea why I'm so weepy as well when there's no real REASON I'm feeling this way.....

Edited August 2, 2020 by littleprincessbbw

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

Aw, that's completely valid and understandable! I was the same before Daddy and I lived together. It's okay to be upset when he goes to miss them, that's completely normal. Maybe arrange to see eachother more?

[D&Daddy]

I'm not a little but I do know what it feels like to be in this position, while I can only speak to how such a time made me feel I'm guessing you'll be able to recognise some of it within yourself.

 

You've had an amazing weekend full of adrenaline and excitement and all the feels you could ever cram into a weekend. Now is the drop off point where you're on your own again, back to what you're used to and what's normal. Your mind in some ways is still trying to process everything and in other ways it's now dealing with the lack of all that great stuff it was flooded with. On top of all that you miss that time you had together and want more. It's a very emotional time, it's all still very new and raw, and it's understandable to feel this way. That was how I felt at least.

 

My recommendation is to reach out to your daddy. Tell him how much you loved the time you spent together, how much you're looking forward to the next time, and how you're feeling now. Also over the coming weeks until you see him again spend some of your time both talking with your daddy and on your own planning for the next time, think about what you'll need, what you'll do together, ask him questions about how it was and what else he'd like to do during the weekend, and tell him what you liked and want to do too. Have a countdown to the next time you see each other even. Importantly don't shy away from how you're feeling, look into it and understand what you're feeling and why; and let him know about all this he's probably got some similar feelings, this is something to go through together.

[Kitten&Spice]

I agree with what was said before me! Maybe arrange a way to see each other more! That or you could try Skyping each other ever night! It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship and your feelings are completely valid and not anything out of the ordinary! You just have a close and bond and miss him! Which is beautiful!