Thoughts on human connections?

[Guest mariposa]

Do you guys ever meet someone who you just feel so connected with? Even like outside of ddlg? Sometimes I can't fathom the quick and strong connection and just the way that it feels it just feels so....right. It's like you meet this person and you can't ever get enough. You just want to know more and have more. You want to talk to them all the time, protect them, take away their pain, be there for them, love them, and have them forever. The thought of them suffering or being with someone else it just feels wrong. You just want them to be happy and laugh with them. And then there's the way that they make you feel. The way someone can make you feel so loved and wanted. The way they make you laugh or the way they just react to certain things. Or the way they just tell you things because they trust you, it just feels special. 

 

I know as humans, connections now a days aren't quite common. Many people stop talking when life gets busy. Divorces are so common because the connection is lost and it's easier to sign things off rather than to try all over again. Sometimes people meet people who don't have the same intentions as them. Alot of people in society (not everyone) can sometimes overvalue other things instead of a connection (ex: sex, wealth, social status). But I don't know I think connections are special and when you talk to someone you just know when it's there. When you can talk to them and be yourself and talk about anything and everything. It's a different type of feeling. 

 

Sometimes you go through so many people and the connection just either fizzles out or it goes wrong. But then you meet someone and you just feel right about them. You feel sure about them. To the point where you just don't want to find anyone else or focus on anyone else. Like they're just your person. Ya know?

 

Sorry if this is a long sappy post but it's midnight can you blame me cx and im quite curious. Do you guys have someone you share a special connection with? A friend? A family member? Your current partner? I'm really curious on what others think about connections and all of that.

 

Also, if you're reading this yes you know who you are, you're a cheeky lil birdy and stop staining my profile with your strawberry fingerprints. 

Edited August 2, 2020 by mariposa

[Kitten&Spice]

I have felt this way before with some people! I don’t really believe in reincarnation but I heard that if you had a strong bond or relationship with that person in a past life it’s basically like getting back into touch! I do believe soulmates is a thing though and that could also be the reason behind it!

 

I honestly really enjoyed reading this topic! I agree that the connection is so important and valuable! Some people don’t even realize how much they starved themselves of human connection until they find people who uplift them and allow them to be themselves! Just having someone see you and ace you for all the flaws is just so beautiful! I think it is a feeling you can’t beat having someone you know is just right for you! And you want to spend every second with them!

[Vampiress]

I have felt this before but interestingly enough most of those people are no longer a part of my life. It is nice to come across such connections but I have learned that even if I feel that way, they may not feel the same, and maybe I'm just wrong about it and so there's still a chance that even though feel like my person they may not always be around. Sometimes I think someone can be your person for a chapter of your life, and not your whole life from that point on. The real struggle is finding the one who will truly be there with you until the end.