Kkrocker Posted July 30, 2020 Report Posted July 30, 2020 I try to say it,but I can't even say it in a normal voice,I always end up saying it quietly like I'm forcing myself to even try to say the word, I never had an irl daddy before so I always typed it. I don't know of anyone else feels that way,I can say it in my head normally but just not verbally
Pupperoo Posted July 30, 2020 Report Posted July 30, 2020 I understand what you mean. I think you just need to get used to the idea that you have an IRL daddy and that it's okay to be little around him and say it out loud. I thought it was super awkward at first as well, because there was this underlying feeling that it was wrong even though I knew it wasn't. 1
RavenclawPrincess Posted July 30, 2020 Report Posted July 30, 2020 Just to put it out there, you don't HAVE to call your partner daddy if you're too uncomfortable with it. There's any number of other titles/"names" you can use if that's better for you.
Guest mariposa Posted July 31, 2020 Report Posted July 31, 2020 I've felt this before with my current partner. But I'd suggest you practice saying it in your head for a bit and get used to the word instead of forcing yourself. So that way it's a bit easier and it doesn't feel like you have to say it. As mentioned above, if it really makes you uncomfortable or if you're not really ready to use the word 'daddy' you can always practice/use other words for the time being.
Guest Teasing Tink Posted August 1, 2020 Report Posted August 1, 2020 I get shy about saying it verbally too -- both with my current romantic partner and my last partner even though I had no qualms prior to the dynamic with last partner calling him silly nicknames like "Mommy" (cuz I'm contradictory that way lol). For me, I realized the reason was because the term "Daddy" felt much more masculine/authoritative to me and therefore, it turned me on to say it which is something I get very inhibited/shy about expressing at times without encouragement. So with my last mate, I eventually just forced myself to say it until it was no longer uncomfortable to the point where I happily started saying it all the time. I'm not sure what your own reasons for having trouble saying it are. It sounds like it's probably just a case of shyness like me if you have no trouble typing it. Just be patient with yourself. You don't have to force yourself to say it habitually like I did, but if it's something you want to get more comfortable with saying, pushing yourself can also be good. It just depends on what you want and what works best for you.
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