Daddy & Me

[Mila113]

Hii everyone !! I want to share some amazing parts about me and my Daddy's relationship and how we make this work !!

I want to share that some of the things we do may not interest you or come off as weird to you but both me and my Daddy genuinely enjoy it !

 

So I have a daily routine that me and my Daddy came up with ! It is fairly simple

 

Daily Routine:

 

•  11:30                Wake Up

•  11:30                Text Daddy

•  11:30 - 11:35    Prayer

•  11:35 - 11:45    Hygiene 

•  11:45 - 12:30    Lunch

•  12:30 - 01:30    Bible Study 

•  01:30 - 05:00    Free Time (Ask Before)

•  05:00 - 05:15    Daddy Phone Call

•  05:15 - 07:00    Free Time (Ask Before) 

•  07:00 - 08:00    Dinner 

•  08:00 - 09:30    Free Time (Ask Before)

•  09:30                 Daddy Calls For The Night

•                            Bible Study

•                            Shower

•                            Bible Study Discussion

•                            Discussion

•                            Prayer

•                            Whatever Daddy wants to do

• 1:30 - 3:30         Bedtime

 

I'll start off by saying that we are both fairly religious so B.S, B.S.D, and Prayer is something we enjoy doing. We both also understand that some things may come up and the time ranges will vary. They are mostly there to help with structuring my day and to give a time slot of when things should be done. Free Time is just space to get things done or do things i like to do while Daddy is at work or busy and I should always ask before switching to a new thing. We do call at the end of the night and stay on face time. It is something that comforts us and it is always nice to see him sleeping during times i have trouble sleeping.

 

Now onto my rules ( I have a lot / I wanted a lot)

 

The highlighted ones are the rules we have talked about and decided i need to spend a bit more time focusing on.

Rules:

• Always answer with either Daddy or Sir. Good manners.

• Never question me when I ask you something or tell you to do something.

• Always keep read receipts and location on.

• Always ask before you go anywhere and say who you are going with. (For my protection)

• Always ask to do anything when you are on the phone with me or we are together. 

• Always be respectful 

• Do what you are told without argument.

• Daddy knows best

• You and every part of you belongs to me, never deny that. 

• Always sleep with Giba. 

• When we are on the phone always keep Giba right by your side. 

• Do not smoke weed or drink 

• You will give yourself and everything you are to me. 

• You will be affectionate and show me how much you appreciate my love. 

• You will learn to be a good girl and you’ll be eager to do it. 

• You’ll pray with me once a day. 

• You’ll tell me if something is wrong.

• You will always be honest and loyal. 

• No inappropriate clothing. Consult with me first.

• Never keep any secrets from me.

• Always stay by Daddy’s side in public.

• Don’t interrupt daddy.

• Always tell me when you have been bad.

• No eye rolling .

• No hanging up.

• You will attend Mass.

• When I decide to punish you, you say “Yes Daddy”.

• No cussing.

• Look at me when I am talking to you.

• Never get rid of P.C.

• Never ignore me.

• Never turn down the phone on purpose .

• Do not say “Whatever”, “Ok”, or “Ya”.

• Will be willing to learn German.

• Speak when spoken to.

• Follow the Daily Schedule. 

• You will not switch attitudes on me.

• No “GTG”.

• If we are not joking around normally you will always respond submissively.

 

The only rule i feel that isn't self explanatory is [Never get rid of P.C.]

P.C. is an app we have on our phones that allows Daddy to remove certain apps for a period of time or limit my usage. We mainly only use it for punishment or when I am not paying attention. We had some issues with my usage and decided this would be best and i asked that we look into it.

My possible punishments:

Possible consequences:

• Verbal Chastisement

• Phone/ipad timeout

• Typing out or saying how you were bad

• Sit in the corner with nose against wall

• Forced reading

• Kneel

• Writing lines

• No playtime

• Stand on toes

• Loss of privilege to speak

•  Chores

• Spanking

• Long eye contact and disappointment

• Repeating phrases

• No eye contact

Daddy does reward me but we either talk about it or He surprises me !

We also just started a Sticker chart !

This chart is a everyday thing and allows me to earn points which then allows me to get a reward like My favorite candy, a new journal, a new stuffie, etc. So everyday I start off with 5 hearts which each one equals 3 points ! These are for my overall daily behavior and if I am bad or act up i lose one but I can also earn it back ! Everything on my daily routine has points : Wake up = 10 pts.

Text Daddy = 1 pt.

Hygiene = 1 pt.

Lunch = 1 pt.

Bible Study = 10 pts.

Free Time = 1 pt.

A.F. Daddy Call = 1 pt.

Free Time = 1 pt.

Dinner = 1 pt.

Free Time = 1 pt.

Daddy Call = 1 pt.

Bible Study = 10 pts.

Shower = 1 pt.

Bible Study D. = 1 pt.

Prayer = 15 pts.

D.W = 10 pts.

I have the chance to earn 100 points a day ! Also I can earn extra !!

For example yesterday I earned 3 extra points because Daddy thought I was being really sweet!

We communicate our wants and needs with each other well and actually tend to really enjoy each other's interest.

When we first started together we had a very simple D/s relationship. I have always been interested in a Dd/lg relationship but never pursued it and I didn't want to push it on him I wanted him to find it and love it Himself. So while i was busy or something I would suggest He look up random things and find anything that interest Him. Daddy ran into a Dd/lg forum and read all about it and fell in love with it. This is a full time commitment from the both of us. Dd/lg is such a big and important part of our relationship. It helps us in so many different ways.

It helps with us becoming more and more bonded and vulnerable with each other, our trust in each other, our way of treating each other, just everything.

My love for my Daddy has just grown more and more every day and I wouldn't trade it for any number of stuffies.

Thank you for reading this and pls pls pls if you have any questions feel free to ask and in this thread tell me all about your relationship with your Daddy/Mommy/little! <3

 

[Nymph]

Ohh that P.C. (parental control?) app sounds pretty useful! I will have to check it out. Someone here recommended me the "Obedience" app and it's great to keep track of tasks, rewards and punishments.

 

Did your routine changed with quarantine? or have you guys always been able to go late to bed and wake up late? (a little jelly!)

 

We used to have a more strict routine, at first we started with points like you guys, but then we moved on to lists and I loved how he sometimes would ask me to follow the list in order and at the end of the list, the last "chore" was to buy myself a treat online or something of the sort :3 we have been together for 7 years so wee go through phases of being more strict or more laid back and of course things have to be more flexible once you have children.

 

How long have you been together?

[Hadrian]

Ohh that P.C. (parental control?) app sounds pretty useful! I will have to check it out. Someone here recommended me the "Obedience" app and it's great to keep track of tasks, rewards and punishments.

 

Did your routine changed with quarantine? or have you guys always been able to go late to bed and wake up late? (a little jelly!)

 

We used to have a more strict routine, at first we started with points like you guys, but then we moved on to lists and I loved how he sometimes would ask me to follow the list in order and at the end of the list, the last "chore" was to buy myself a treat online or something of the sort :3 we have been together for 7 years so wee go through phases of being more strict or more laid back and of course things have to be more flexible once you have children.

 

How long have you been together?

Mila and I have been together nearing a year now. The P.C. App is called OurPact (It requires third party software installation which was a bit of a pain). 

 

Regarding the sleep, I work everyday of the week and she is out of school at the moment. I have to wake up fairly early and she does not which is difficult for her because she doesn't want Daddy to sleep and leave her, Especially since she suffers from insomnia which makes it a lot more difficult. We are trying to figure out a way to balance it out so that I can get some sleep for work and that she can stay entertained and not be too upset with Daddy gone.

 

The list idea sounds great considering that she wakes up quite late so she has trouble following a strict schedule with time slots. I feel like the list would allow her to do what daddy wants her to do and her sleep schedule wouldn't cause many issues with it.

[lil_pinky_puppy]

this is very wholesome tbh'

[Guest Prat]

Awesome post!