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[Justaperson]

. Edited June 30, 2021 by Justaperson

[RavenclawPrincess]

It sounds to me like maybe they made promises that they couldn't keep when they said they'd never give up on you. Overall it sounds like there's a huge compatibility issue. You need patience and for your mental health issues to be cared about, and they want someone that's immediately available without any baggage. I personally think that's too much for them to ask for with meeting people online but that's neither here nor there as it relates to you. You are never under any obligation to meet people that you aren't comfortable with before you're ready, and I know that you're feeling hurt over this but you're better off without them pressuring you to fit what they want to your own detriment. I don't think you did anything wrong at all, it's just a matter of what they wanted versus what you need didn't line up so nicely. For the time being I think you should focus on yourself and improving your mental health. If you get yourself in a good spot you'll be better prepared to seek out a new partnership that's more compatible in the future. 

[Nymph]

They have a time limit on how long they are willing to keep the relationship online, you need to respect that.

 

All you explained is how you cannot make things work right away/fast at this moment, however you had 5 months to do that.

 

They did not give up on you due your mental health, they gave up on you because you didn't want to move the relationship to the next level. They already waited on you once, it is unfair to think they will wait on you forever, they already made it clear by ending things they were not willing to wait but you did get a second chance.

 

I think in the future you need to find someone more flexible and patient, not promise stuff you are not sure you can do and if you decide you never actually want to meet someone is perfectly cool to look for an online only relationship if you feel that will work better for you.

[MiniIsah]

Hi little girl, in my opinion being a daddy a mommy means to be able to understand us and "care" for us, it kinda seems they gave an ultimatum and if they really care about u and know of your problems, such as anxiety, they shouldn't have.. As somoene that suffers anxiety being put pressure on does not help at all. So let me tell you sweetie that you aren't at fault in this situation, and I do know it hurts but maybe they aren't the best match for u. Everything will work out u will see, you'll find a daddy or a mommy or both that understands you and will be patient with you

[SmolAetherr]

i dont think you did anything wrong from what you have told us already, they just werent willing to wait as long as you needed them to wait which doesent make you or them bad some things just dont work and its ok, it has to be ok

[princxss.kxlly]

In my opinion you did NOT do anything wrong and neither did they. Its just a compatibility thing and thats nobodys fault. if it was meant to be more than what it was then they would've waited. Youll meet your person/people one day!! <3

[tomcatmk]

You did not do anything wrong it seems they had one thing on their mind and that was to get you there so they could dominate you an use you for a toy an not to cherish and nurture. Pm me an we can talk. Ive had plenty of experience with anxiety from my ex little of 5 years.

[RavenclawPrincess]

OP, please be aware of the fact that you’re in such an emotionally vulnerable state. It’s great to make friends and seek support from them but keep an eye out for any red flags and trust your gut if something doesn’t feel right. You and your well being need to be the top priority and with the situation that you’re in you could be viewed as an easy target. People need to earn your trust before you give it to them and you have every right to put your safety and mental health first. Take care of yourself and get your mental health on the right track before anything else. I know you’re in a tough spot but you’ve got this