Hey can i have some advice?

[Guest chubbyprincess.]

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Edited July 5, 2020 by chubbyprincess.

[MissPattch]

Well, i guess seeing as you aren't in a relationship with him yet, i would come straight out and ask him. If your aim is for him to be "Daddy" then you'd need to know whether you are with someone who wants more than one little, and then decide on if that works for you. If you want to date him, or get into something more serious, it absolutely is your business. I'm very much "up front" in the early stages, i like to know a few things that are important to me, and usually put them out for discussion as soon as possible, to save feelings developing and then having to walk away from them <3

[Guest chubbyprincess.]

Thank you so much for your reply, that would be my aim, you are 100% right i do need to know as i personally only want to be the only little. I didn't know if i was being too forward being saying something in the early stages as its only been a few dates but you make such a good point as its saves developing feelings and can just walk away like you say thank you so much x

Well, i guess seeing as you aren't in a relationship with him yet, i would come straight out and ask him. If your aim is for him to be "Daddy" then you'd need to know whether you are with someone who wants more than one little, and then decide on if that works for you. If you want to date him, or get into something more serious, it absolutely is your business. I'm very much "up front" in the early stages, i like to know a few things that are important to me, and usually put them out for discussion as soon as possible, to save feelings developing and then having to walk away from them <3

[SmolAetherr]

if he already has a little that is sort of relevant don't you think? i wouldnt want to go on dates with a little and find out she already has a daddy, platonic or not i would be noping out.

[Guest chubbyprincess.]

That is a very good point it is relevant 

if he already has a little that is sort of relevant don't you think? i wouldnt want to go on dates with a little and find out she already has a daddy, platonic or not i would be noping out.

[littleprincessbbw]

I think it's really relevant and important.  If I was going on dates with a potential Daddy I'd want to know you know?  

 

It's absolutely acceptable to ask what the situation is so you can decide if you want to be in that situation.  

[Guest RuggedDaddy]

So many Daddy's are bad to string a little along. She clearly is needing someone and at least has some interactions with him. She is calling out and sounds like he is making a common excuse of "being tired" or "sleeping" during that specific time of day.

 

You have every right to ask and also to be concerned of he is going to do something same with you .. I wish you the very best either way