Vent/Talking about DDLG

[Kuromi]

So, I've had this on my mind for a while. I am into ddlg, but I'm not really into the whole thing of calling someone 'daddy'. I think It's cute, but probably not something I see myself using much. I know there's plenty other names to use too, and I really like them. The names King, Mister, Sir, those are much more fitting to me. Another thing that's been on my mind is, I realized a few years ago I was into the whole daddy-caregiver spectrum, was because I didn't get the love, support, and affection I wanted/needed when I was a child. So I often enjoy doing childlike things, and I still have a bit of a child-like mind ig.

 

Big words confuse me, I'm a little more slower than others to understand things. I love to watch disney movies, cartoons, play videogames, color/draw, and snuggle with stuffed animals. I haven't shared this secret with any of my friends, but they often question why I act all cutesy and adorable. I can't really help it, It's just how I am, but I don't want to be shunned for something I'm into, and what makes me, me. You know?

 

I also realized, pet names make me so happy and giddy... being complimented/praised, is literally the best feeling in the world. Being called Princess? A good girl? babygirl? Any cute names like that make me so giggly/and happy, and put me into my cutemode/little mode. I love it so much. Though I know I'm not into degrading/shaming at all. That is a nono for me.

 

I love that I found this these few years ago, I would've never realized I was into ddlg till I found this website one day, by searching up why I act the way I do. It's relieving to know I'm a little/babygirl, etc etc. However, I know not every one is accepting of this lifestyle and thinks It's weird, but I suppose the right people will stay around me if they end up knowing this is how I am one day. I just hope my closest friends don't judge me, if it happens it happens, I just want to be happy.

Edited July 5, 2020 by Guest

[LittleCoffeeMug]

I can relate and agree with so much you just wrote!

 

I don't really like calling my partner Daddy I mean I'm okay with it but it's not really my thing. I like Sir, Master, and We've fooled around with Senpai, Oni-chan, and Oppa.

Not saying everyone but I think alot of times the ddlg lifestyle is to get that care you didn't get as a kid. I grew up really fast so missed being a child and being carefree and having that love, attention and that feeling safe feeling.

So it's nice to have that now to kind of have those experiences now and get that child like wonders and to relax.

 

It's hard to talk to people who aren't in the lifestyle because it does have such a bad rep and is looked down upon. I hope one day you can talk to more people about it.

That's cute you get all childlike and gidddy with pet names, they're amazing and always give you that warm feeling.

I hope everyone can one day see it too that this lifestyle helps a lot of people experience feelings and things they haven't allowed themselves to feel before.

I'm happy for you and thanks for sharing!!

[Amber_dragon]

Nice post.

 

I started exploring because of a friends with benefits. But the lifestyle itself is really appealing because I find it hard to meet people that aren't caught up in their own world. The CG/lg aspect of it is fulfilling because people who WANT to look after someone get their needs met and then someone like me can get my need of having someone pay attention to the details of my life met.     I did have a pretty independent childhood, but I think it's the adult world of people doing their own thing that made me crave more focused attention? I think anyway.