How to Deal with Haters

[Whiskey Lullaby]

I feel like this is something we've all gone through before. We open up to someone about DDLG and get brutally let down and faced with hate. I was recently told some nasty things and have been doing my best to cope with it. Coping is especially difficult when I do not have a daddy to go crying to or any friends in the ddlg community. I feel this is an important topic to discuss and if anyone ever needs someone to talk to about haters or just about the difficulties that members of our community can faced with, I am here. for now I think I'll just do my best to focus on being comfortable with myself no matter what some immature person who doesn't understand says. I am new to posting on here. Sorry that I don't have much more to say.

[SmolAetherr]

i agree, people dont need to like the same things but we should respect eachother and the fact that you recieved no respect says more about the other person being a mean person or intolerant

[Guest clumsy_little]

I only tell people who I think won't judge and accept me the way I am. So the only person I opened up about was my bestie since he's a Dom. I don't have the guts to open up to anyone else because they will make disgusting faces and look and talk to you as if I sinned lol 

[baby_k]

Obviously people should act respecfully but it also is pretty natural that people react. I wouldn't really put all blame on 'the haters' as that is just what people do and can be expected.

 

Therefore, you need to really consider to whom you speak about ddlg as by telling you push this lifestyle on to someone's face who probably didn't even ask for it. And they have right to have any kind of opinion of the matter, they have right to be repulsed about this stuff ( as let's face it: this is some really twisted stuff especially if you look at it as an outsider ). They also have right to 'not educate' themselves on the matter.

 

Is it nice for us? No. But we need to respect other's too, and we don't have right to push this lifestyle to anyone's face without giving them the right to react and have opinion too.

[Kitten&Spice]

For me personally I only tend to tell people who I trust and their opinion matters to me. I don’t really broadcast or show what I am into in public and I try to keep my lifestyle private to avoid anyone really hurting that part of me I cherish so much.

 

However I have come to realize that the best thing to do is to not feel ashamed of who you are or what choices you make. In the end it is your happiness that is the most important. And if being little brings you joy then who is there to stop you! Let people look and say what they want! You are little! You are fierce! And you can conquer the world with the glitter in your pockets!

[Frost Evergarden]

as an aspie I don't care about the opinions of unnecessary people. that being said I hate when people slander me and accuse me of things. I had that happen last week.

[SmolAetherr]

as an aspie I don't care about the opinions of unnecessary people. that being said I hate when people slander me and accuse me of things. I had that happen last week.

im an aspie as well, there is nothing i hate more than lies and name calling/slander