Little me is broken

[LostBunny]

My little is caused by extreme trauma so I need someone to give me a lot of affection and nurturing. I’m extremely sensitive and emotional attached to whom ever I’m with, but my boyfriend of two year doesn’t understand or want to be my daddy. He has his own little girl with his ex, and he never gets to see her so he hurts every day from it. He always tells me I need to grow up or grow a spine for once when I let my emotions get to me but I need him to just hold me and make me feels safe. I need him to treat me like his baby girl.

 

I’m tired of being hurt in the moment I need my daddy the most. The little girl inside of me is heat broken… i want to let her go so I don’t have to feel that pain anymore.

[MasterPhotog]

Hope things get better for you. Let me know if I can be of any help! 

[Baby Bunny Boo]

I say dump him and find someone that is willing to care for YOUR needs. Don't setting for anything less. If your partner is causing you that much pain and is unwilling to do what you know works for you he ain't it.

[LostBunny]

He doesn’t know he’s hurting me so deeply, and I already have a really hard time expressing or sharing my emotions. He’s been here for me when ever I needed him and I know he loves me with all of is heart… it’s just that he isn’t the daddy I need him to be

[SmolAetherr]

you cant make people act they way you want, stop trying its unhealthy he doesent want to be a daddy that doesent make him bad you need to draw the line at what is a dealbreaker for you and what is not if your boyfriend as he is now is not what you need then it is on you and you alone to address that you can always have the talk about what you need with this person but they have to consent, they have to desire it too

[peachprince]

Maybe you could talk to him about you having a separate daddy? Like how he has his little with his ex, you could have a daddy separate from your relationship with him! It doesn't work for everyone and it's hard to get everything in place, but I think it might be a good compromise if you sti want to be with him, but need a daddy.

[DerbyNerd]

Maybe you could talk to him about you having a separate daddy? Like how he has his little with his ex, you could have a daddy separate from your relationship with him! It doesn't work for everyone and it's hard to get everything in place, but I think it might be a good compromise if you sti want to be with him, but need a daddy.

I think they mean their boyfriend has an actual child with his ex.

 

However I second the idea of at least discussing having a daddy outside of the relationship. It doesn’t have to be sexual. But it sounds like your really need to have this need met and if he can’t then hopefully someone else can.

[Lilith-Lynn-Lupin]

My husband is not my Daddy, and ignores my Little self! Luckily he does not mind me having a platonic Daddy, if I could ever find one LOL they are illusive! However I think it might be what you need. Just my opinion. Especially if you want to keep the current boyfriend! Again just my humble opinion!