Titles are they adjustable for different situations?

[Tigerflame74]

not sure if my title is the proper way to explain my dilema. IRL i am a father to two teenaged girls whom I have lost in a divorce. (long story for another day) When i got into my first Dd\Lg relationship we didnt use titles for the first 2 months or so when she called me daddy the first time i felt sick. For some reason it made me extremely uncomfortable. I was taking on the daddy role but i couldnt stomach hearing her call me daddy. One day i sat and realized it was because my daughters still called me daddy and my little and I changed the title to Papa. That felt much better. But after that we began to slowly drift a part. we stopped seeing each other a few months ago. She told me it was because she had fallen in love with me and it wasnt what she had wanted. I find my self wondering if we kept the titles the way they were if that would have done any thing. 

[MellyBoo19912015]

Not always a thing about titles. I really doubt your change in titles caused the loss of your relationship. Titles change yes, we don't all call our bigs Daddy or Mommy, sometimes it's us who don't like it or sometimes it's the big who don't like it or something it just doesn't fit. Take sometime to heal and grief.

[wardenmark]

No titles don't matter in things of the heart. I am surprised that your little left, did her big fall in love with you or was it her little fell in love with you and she couldn't differentiate or no longer wanted to differentiate between them?

[Lisa]

I wasn't "there". But, I doubt the title was the reason for the break-up; especially given her reason...

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

If she left you for that, the relationship was a waste of time in the first place. If my daddy didn't like that term, I would call him something else. A true relationship has nothing to do with the names and titles. You do not like the name daddy, fine. Doesn't stop you being this kind of person. Its a word, a term of affection. As anyone in this dynamic knows, it has literally nothing to do with being a father. My daddy calls me his little girl, but he only sees me as an adult, not an actual little girl. He also calls me princess, but has no latent sexual feelings towards the royal family lol.

A little girl can call you anything at all. Your first name works too lol.

[Magi]

I don't think it was the title. Falling in love is strange and she may not have been ready for it.

[Darkling]

If the title alone changed it.... then it wasn't the title that did it. 
 

I'm sorry it ended badly, a relationship is so much more than a name. Maybe it was very very important for her. In that case, she needs to find someone who can give her that. You need someone who will call you Papa with just as much love. The nature of the relationship doesn't change.