Will it still work?

[Once.Upon]

Hi, I met my Daddy a year ago. Just out of curiosity I tried being a Little. I liked it, the care, attention, love and being able to do Little things. But, my entire life I've been quite independent and have no problem doing things solo, which he didn't like or found it as a signal that I didn't want him to be Daddy like anymore... Long story short I felt I was letting him down so I ended the DDLG relationship and asked him to try a "normal" relationship with me. I sometimes still go into Little space where I want to play games, color or just play with him, but he threw everything out related to DDLG and doesn't react... I feel that he resents me and is probably just settling. Should I leave the relationship altogether? Is there a way to be half Little and adult? Will this satisfy him? I'm afraid he'll start looking for a real Little if I don't go back to the DDLG relationship.

[lilvioletcub]

First of all I'm sorry you are going though that now as for your questions

 

Should I leave the relationship altogether?

That is up to you and it depends on if your happy or not

 

Is there a way to be half Little and adult?

I'm not quite sure what you mean the closest I can think of is being a middle which is age 10+ old enough to do things on your own but still needing daddy's care, love, and attention,

 

Will this satisfy him?

I can't say yes or no to be honest if your trying to ajust your little space to fit his view of a little YOU yourself won't be satisfied

 

I'm afraid he'll start looking for a real Little if I don't go back to the DDLG relationship.

 YOU ARE A REAL LITTLE! Caped, underlined, bolded, and italiced to make a point. Little space is not a one size fits all

Some little age regress others don't, some like glitter and pink, others like black and spiders, some like coloring and stuffies others don't

there is no one way to feel little and no one way to be little and he should never force that or take away from that.

 

 

You like being cared for, attention, coloring, etc then you are a little. You like doing your own thing? also good and still makes you a little.

My best suggestion would be premission asking your daddy "may I _____" for example " May I be a big girl and clean the house today?" or whatever other solo activities it is you do or need to do

I think sitting down with him and explaining to him how you feel is also good. Doing what he is doing is not right

[Once.Upon]

Thanks for the insight! ( sorry I'm new to this site, so don't know how to navigate much, such as tagging you guys names in the thanks..)

[Lisa]

These are questions that only you and him can answer. You should tell him how you perceive his "resentful" actions, and ask him how he really feels. There may be other reasons he is feeling off or down (not necessarily because of you). Also, talk to him about what will/won't satisfy him in a relationship. Communication is key. If you cannot communicate, there is no relationship.

[Darkling]

He probably does resent you a little. I cannot imagine how heartbroken i will be if Daddy decides he doesn't want little me anymore....

 

That doesn't mean the end though. You've told him you don't want it, and now you want it again. He's probably confused.......It must be hard for him because if he feels he interacts with you on a little level you will reject him again. 

 

Stick it all on the table. Apologise.... See if you guys can work out when you're little and when you're not....

No one is little all the time. You can do big things and still be little.... 

 

You are you. Talk to him and find out what you need and want regarding the little side.