DDLG Sample Rules

[Guest Isaac_Paramount]

Hey guys!

 

I saw a few posts asking for ideas for rules, so I thought I'd share some basic ones that I've used in the past with previous littles. Of course, talk to you dom/sub before implementing any of these and tailor them to your relationship. Feel free to ask if you have any questions!

 

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1. Daddy's little girl is to always obey Daddy's orders and follow his rules. When Daddy gives his little girl an order, either verbally, via text or through hand signals, she is to obey immediately, unquestioningly, and to the absolute best of her abilities. Daddy's little girl is never to disobey an order from Daddy, and once given an order, will treat that order as her highest priority above absolutely anything else

 

2. Daddy's little girl will always address Daddy politely and respectfully, always referring to him as ‘Daddy’, ‘sir’, or ‘Daddy’. She is to do this regardless of the setting or who is around. If we are around family members or friends, Daddy’s little girl will instead use terms such as “my love”. 

 

3. Before leaving the house, Daddy's little girl must show Daddy her outfit for his approval. Daddy has the right to make any changes he desires or forbid the outfit entirely. 

 

4. Daddy's little girl is not to masturbate or play with herself without express permission from Daddy

 

5. Any punishment Daddy sees fit to give his little girl, for any reason, she will accept gratefully and without argument. After the punishment has concluded, princess must thank Daddy and present him with a handwritten letter detailing how she's learned her lesson, what she will do to prevent the situation from happening again, and what she will do to apologize to Daddy

 

6. Unless Daddy's little girl is being used by Daddy or is otherwise permitted, she is always to be in bed by 11PM each night. 

 

7. When in public with Daddy, his little girl must remain close to him at all times, with her arm wrapped around his, unless Daddy says otherwise.

 

8. These rules apply to Daddy's little girl at all times, under any circumstances, and are never to be ignored unless Daddy specifically instructs his little girl otherwise

[Sky18120]

Ok if you were my daddy i would obey these

[Guest Sparkly_BunBun]

Yeah cool but “used by” sounds kinda meh

[Stujw]

Ok if you were my daddy i would obey these

they are good rules Edited January 12, 2021 by Stujw

[DerbyNerd]

I personally wouldn't agree to rules 1 or 5 how they are worded now. 

 

With rule 1 for example; what if the little is somewhere that she is unable to follow a command? If she's at work, school or with her friends? I think with that wording there is no flexibility and too much room for error. What if its a command by text and she's driving and doesn't see it for an hour... will she get on trouble? What if the command is something that would put her at risk or make her feel uncomfortable in her current situation. I think working it more like "the little will obey as soon as she is practically able, which if not right away she will inform her daddy of why not"

 

With rule 5 the wording again gets me. I believe punishments should be for a reason... its currently worded to say the little must take all punishment without question whenever the dom feels like it. For me this feels wayyy to open to being abused, why should a little theoretically take punishment just because the dom feels like giving it? Or because of a misunderstanding? ALSO I don't believe that punishment and an apology action is necessary. Sure saying sorry if it was something that upset the daddy is find but if she's taken her punishment why should she also have to DO something to apologise? 

 

It might just be my personal preference but I wouldn't agree to the wording of 1 and 5 ... I also hate the use of the word 'used' in rule 6 

[DaddysMonkey]

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[Guest angel babygirl Gina tv]

I would obey these rules if you were my mummy

[maddycakes]

Oooh, I love the idea of writing a letter explaining what lesson was learned after receiving a punishment and steps to be taken to avoid breaking rules/bad behavior in the future. I also think it would be nice to do something extra as an apology, maybe not all the time but only if it was a big offense or repeated bad behavior. 

 

I totally agree with DerbyNerd that rules 1 and 5 are a bit too inflexible for my taste. There has to be room for the sub to respectfully bring concerns/disagree with rules. Example: If you give a sub a command to eat something they are allergic to unknowingly, they need to be able to say no! That is a really obvious example, but it demonstrates the importance of having a system that allows the sub to explain, with all due respect, why an order is not appropriate at that time (or ever, depending on what it is). The same goes for punishments. A punishment (imo) is supposed to teach a lesson. If you decide to punish someone for no reason (or don't explain the reason adequately), the little learns nothing and becomes frustrated. Additionally, it would be totally unfair to punish someone for a rule you haven't given them yet. Example: when you first start dating someone and have not yet set up rules, it would be silly to expect them to do all the things you are used to in this kind of relationship such as refer to you as Sir, kneel while you are sitting, refrain from swearing or masturbating, whatever. Even if it may seem like common knowledge to you, if you haven't explicitly stated a rule, how can you blame your little for not following it? 

 

Personally, I enjoy the verbiage "used by" (when my partner says it, of course! but since these are supposed to be sample rules used with a s/o following negotiation I think it's okay). I understand how it could rub some people the wrong way, and that is completely fine! You do not need to use it, but some people do have objectification as a kink so saying "i hate it" is a bit strong imo. Although this list seems to be aimed at newbies, the intro states that they should be discussed and tailored to your relationship, so if you are uncomfortable with that specific phrase, it can easily be substituted with something less offensive. (littles- if this wasn't clear from the post's intro, you should NEVER let your partner just hand out rules willy nilly!! Negotiation and communication are KEY to the development of mutually beneficial rules! If something makes you uncomfortable, you have the right to say no and make adjustments.)

[LittleTeacup]

The only one of these I can even see as a rule for me is #6, minus the "used by daddy" part. A bedtime is something I would accept, with negotiation on the exact time of course.

 

All the rest I bristle at for being too strict or attempting to control things I don't want to be controlled, like when I choose to masturbate. But, I already knew I'm a softer little who wants more of a caregiver than a dom. I prefer health and wellness type rules/guidelines like "tell my caregiver when I feel bad", "shower when my caregiver tells me it's been too long", "always eat at least one vegetable every day". And instead of serious punishments I'd prefer rewards when I do good. If I mess up a lot, the "punishment" could be a mandatory conversation with my caregiver about why I'm struggling.

[Kittykat83]

I could follow these rules, with pleasure . Wording may not be to my taste on some of them, but the gist, I can most certainly do