Alaskan Daddy Posted June 14, 2020 Report Posted June 14, 2020 People can be so stupid and judge very easy. They have not taken the time to get to know and understand you. You can not help how you feel, and no one can take your feelings away form you. I can see you know that there no 'cookie cutter' ways to feel or behave when you regress. In every walk of life you are going to find haters and people who want to shame you. The best thing you can do is be confident in who you are and how you feel and push those people out of your life. in my life I just block people with out telling them if they don't give me the same respect I give them. I hope by expressing your feelings here allows you to feel better about who you are. All of us here on the forum are giving you the power, encouragement and support you desire to help you feel better again. You are in charge of your feelings and you have the power to rid yourself of toxic people from your life. I hope my words help
LeanBlaster Posted June 14, 2020 Report Posted June 14, 2020 Was it in social medias? i am so sorry to hear that, i know there are many toxic people targeting littles and CG's just because they are misinformed and prefer to stay that way instead... Dont fight them block them and dont let yourself be targeted by their toxicity, its not worth it, the more you fight, the more the attention you will get and the worst the toxicity, you are good, you are you and you are valid, you did nothing wrong for being who you are alright? you are doing your best and we are proud of you! Thank you for holding on till today and i hope you continue that way! we re here if needed, i am sure mine isnt the only one but feel free to contact if needed to vent! You are stronger than you think! May your little heart be your guiding key <3
princess cotton grass Posted June 14, 2020 Report Posted June 14, 2020 you're so right, the agere community can be extremely judgmental and toxic. i love agere but i removed myself from the community because of the toxicity. i think if its troubling you you should consider doing the same. it is understandable that some agere littles don't want to be sexualised and we should 100% accept that but the shaming and bullying of ddlg littles is unfair and unacceptable. however, there is a circle within agere that accept all littles, sexual or not. i recommend befriending those in that circle and keeping your own friendship circle tight. that way you can still receive support and be able to express your little space. i would also suggest privating your account and not putting the nature of your regression (either sfw or nsfw) in your bio. littlespace is very vunerable for all of us and you deserve a safe space. 2
LeanBlaster Posted June 14, 2020 Report Posted June 14, 2020 you're so right, the agere community can be extremely judgmental and toxic. i love agere but i removed myself from the community because of the toxicity. i think if its troubling you you should consider doing the same. it is understandable that some agere littles don't want to be sexualised and we should 100% accept that but the shaming and bullying of ddlg littles is unfair and unacceptable. however, there is a circle within agere that accept all littles, sexual or not. i recommend befriending those in that circle and keeping your own friendship circle tight. that way you can still receive support and be able to express your little space. i would also suggest privating your account and not putting the nature of your regression (either sfw or nsfw) in your bio. littlespace is very vunerable for all of us and you deserve a safe space. You will notice the ones that are toxic are the underage that just popped up unfortunately, i noticed on twitter most bashers are underage!
princess cotton grass Posted June 15, 2020 Report Posted June 15, 2020 You will notice the ones that are toxic are the underage that just popped up unfortunately, i noticed on twitter most bashers are underage! maybe, but agere is sfw and so is safe and mostly accepting of minors. 1
LeanBlaster Posted June 15, 2020 Report Posted June 15, 2020 maybe, but agere is sfw and so is safe and mostly accepting of minors. yeah, i don't mind that, its just sad they are the ones bullying littles instead of just minding their own stuff or educate themselves instead of being bad.. 1
fofasoftie Posted June 15, 2020 Author Report Posted June 15, 2020 (edited) maybe, but agere is sfw and so is safe and mostly accepting of minors. i think agere is not sfw or nsfw agere is a spirit state we really regress and i get very sad that people are turning something natural into a reason for bullying and setting a standard to the point of causing depression Edited June 15, 2020 by fofasoftie
fofasoftie Posted June 15, 2020 Author Report Posted June 15, 2020 (edited) yeah, i don't mind that, its just sad they are the ones bullying littles instead of just minding their own stuff or educate themselves instead of being bad.. they know their evils. they act like ddlg is all about sex and "pretending" to be a kid ( I've even been threatened with being HACKED just because I showed links/websites showing that they were wrong in attacking someone for regressing sexually (i have a twitter thread with proof that ddlg / agere are the same, the only difference is they swear that all regressing is non-sexual) I also remember that they said that my "years" of studying and being a ddlg / agere, meant nothing.the truth is that they are from ddlg(they even call the caregiver daddy / mommy), but they are ashamed to assume this publicly only to be accepted by a toxic community. they know arent a mental choice. it’s sad when people don’t accept the truth even though we’re trying to show it and then they go on the attack Edited June 15, 2020 by fofasoftie 1
LeanBlaster Posted June 15, 2020 Report Posted June 15, 2020 they know their evils. they act like ddlg is all about sex and "pretending" to be a kid ( I've even been threatened with being HACKED just because I showed links/websites showing that they were wrong in attacking someone for regressing sexually (i have a twitter thread with proof that ddlg / agere are the same, the only difference is they swear that all regressing is non-sexual) I also remember that they said that my "years" of studying and being a ddlg / agere, meant nothing. the truth is that they are from ddlg(they even call the caregiver daddy / mommy), but they are ashamed to assume this publicly only to be accepted by a toxic community. they know arent a mental choice. it’s sad when people don’t accept the truth even though we’re trying to show it and then they go on the attack some just dont want the nsfw near, but i doesnt change the fact that bullying is wrong... my twitter got randomly attacked because i had ddlg said there and called me a ped* because they couldnt afford a sec to go check too... its hard but just block them dont mind them alright? if needed we can be mutual on twitter so at least you know someone is safe to interact if you want! just stay safe alright? <3 1
princess cotton grass Posted June 15, 2020 Report Posted June 15, 2020 agere is strictly sfw. no question. i kind of wish there was a middle ground though because of that between agere and ddlg for those of us who aren't strictly sfw or nsfw.
fofasoftie Posted June 16, 2020 Author Report Posted June 16, 2020 (edited) agere is strictly sfw. no question. i kind of wish there was a middle ground though because of that between agere and ddlg for those of us who aren't strictly sfw or nsfw.LMFAOno question? lol AGERE is not sfw or nsfw AGERE is not a dynamic, it's a lifestyle nobody should say that this is exclusively for minors when people don't decide to regress mentally agere and ddlg are the same agere are in littles arent a choice agere is age regressing go study! i don't know what are you doing here if you think this way wrong Edited June 16, 2020 by fofasoftie
fofasoftie Posted June 16, 2020 Author Report Posted June 16, 2020 some just dont want the nsfw near, but i doesnt change the fact that bullying is wrong... my twitter got randomly attacked because i had ddlg said there and called me a ped* because they couldnt afford a sec to go check too... its hard but just block them dont mind them alright? if needed we can be mutual on twitter so at least you know someone is safe to interact if you want! just stay safe alright? <3 yesss pwease lets be mutuals you are very nice and i agree with you also,i'm so sorry for people who were mad to you ^^ please,message me(friend request), i will delete this topic
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