Is my boyfriend little?

[elizabeththeelephant]

Hey guys! 
Recently I mentioned my love of mdlb to my boyfriend. Thankfully he was down to try it, even though he isn't experienced with being little. We're long distance because of quarentine (but also saving up for cars since we live 40 minutes apart ) so its hard to do little things together, though we do plan on doing cute little things in person together eventually. I read to him some nights before bed which I hope he likes. Recently he hasn't been asking me to read to him every night though.

He's been getting tummyaches and headaches more often too and not wanting to stay up late and read bedtime stories, so I don't know if its him not feeling well, or him not wanting to be little. I've asked him about it and he's told me they're actual stomachaces and he'll go to the doctor once quarentine ends. 

He's a more feminine guy too though, and a lot of his relationships have ended because of that (they wanted someone more masculine) so I'm also wondering if he's worried about letting go of his masculinity and just being little for a bit too, incase I judge. 

It's just hard to understand why he doesn't want to be little super often. If anyone can offer insight, i'd love to hear it. 

[Guest Oligoclase]

The best you can do is take him at as word, let him know you love him for who he is and are willing to listen if he ever needs to talk. For a bit of speculation on my part, tummyaches and headaches might be a sign of stress (among other things) which could have nothing to do with your relationship. He could be worried about the future as corona has messed up many people's plans and introduced uncertainly where it wasn't before. This doesn't mean he doesn't trust you enough to speak with you about his feelings. Your boyfriend might not be self-aware enough to be able to articulate his emotions as it's a skill most boys don't get to practice often.

[elizabeththeelephant]

Thanks for the reply! Yeah, he has anxiety so I'm thinking it might be related to that, especially since he's been having nightmares as well most nights. He lost his job as a result of corona too, so I know how upsetting that must be for him. I feel like being little would be a good way to escape from those worries, but I'm not going to push it

[GentleFemdom]

He doesn't want to be little all the time because he's new to this. You can be a feminine guy and not want to be a little. He might be doing it to please you, he probably is inexperienced with women and thinks since this is what you want and makes you happy that it's good for him, too. 

[elizabeththeelephant]

He doesn't want to be little all the time because he's new to this. You can be a feminine guy and not want to be a little. He might be doing it to please you, he probably is inexperienced with women and thinks since this is what you want and makes you happy that it's good for him, too. 

Hmm, maybe. He's super experienced with girls, but most didn't let him be feminine, so he might just being little so he can keep me around. I'll just keep an eye on him with it.

[GentleFemdom]

Sorry not trying to be too blunt,, just my opinion,, I hope everything goes well.