Was it wrong to lie to my sibling about me being a little?

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So, I was reading Little Me, Big Me by Penny Berry and my brother walked into my room without knocking and saw the book. He started like freaking out so I lied and said that my boyfriend/daddy's friend is a little and I didn't want to offend them by being uneducated so I bought the book to learn. Was that wrong of me?

[Lollipox]

No. Your family doesn’t need to know this stuff.

Nobody really does except for the people involved with you as a Little.

 

I’ve never heard of it until now. Is it an extremely unsubtle book with big illustrations or something?

I’m curious why it needed any explanation at all, and why he’s so intrigued by what you’re reading.

It sounds like a wattpad story lol

[The RealDaddyCat]

If he was freaking out and is obvious that he cannot handle it in is not mature enough To be able to have a conversation about it. Like a person above me said it's not really anybody's business if you do not choose to make known this part of you

[Guest Peachy Keen]

It wasn't wrong at all.

 

RealDaddyCat is right. If he freaked out he's not mature enough to handle knowing the truth.

 

It's your private business and who you share it with is your choice. I probably would have lied as well if someone had that reaction. No one likes to be judged.

 

I hope you're feeling ok despite this.

[princessfreckles]

Not at all, I see it as self preservation. You being a little is about you, and it's not anyone else's business to know. Sadly there is a big stigma surrounding kink, and specifically littles. So it's definitely best that you not share, especially if you're not completely sure that your sibling is kink friendly. 

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Thanks guys! 

[RoraDaExplorer]

My sister knows i'm a little from just going through my stuff lols. At first she was really mean about it, and told me it was glorifying pedophilia. I just rolled my eyes and didn't even bother explaining why it comforts me so much. Overtime she has grown used and comfortable to it, around 2 years it took. It doesn't help that one of her old roommates, that she hates is a little and was very very open about it. I don't actively act little around her but I do enjoy playing with toys, especially puzzle or building toys and she often helps me out or makes giant bubbles with me. But this lifestyle has a lot negative opinions about it so don't be ashamed to keep it in the closet. It took my sister TWO YEARS to accept this part of me. So please don't be ashamed about keeping it a secret. 

Edited June 22, 2020 by DaExplorer