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[littlehys]

I recently started calling my husband daddy. We have been together for 8 years and I have always had little tendencies I just didn't quite realize what it meant until recently. He says he is very into what we are doing, but I am worried he doesn't understand my needs. It was really scary to share this with him, but he seems really open to it. He already calls me "little one" all the time and he always bathes me in the shower and brushes my hair. He is extremely nurturing and helps me with all my meals and pretty much everything. We have literally been doing this kinda of stuff for years. We only recently started to incorporate this into our sex life. How should i navigate this? Any advice for having a DD/lg marriage would be greatly appreciated. I would love any advice, ideas, anything really. I am terrified of him rejecting this side of me and I am not sure I can put it away at all. I also don't know if I want to call him daddy all the time but I want some more names I can use for him maybe in more casual situation. Also any ideas of names for me that other people use. He has called me little one and cutie and baby but I am open to hearing what other people use. 

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Hihi! I can relate! My husband and I have been married for 23 years and only recently began to be Daddy and little together! I have always been little, but didn't know it was a thing until last fall! Here are some ideas to help you feel more comfortable sharing your wants and needs with your husband: try writing him a letter! You can color on ot, decorate with stickers, and let him know what you are thinking! Don't forget to ask him about his wants, needs, and ideas too! You could also lay your head in his lap while you talk. So relaxing and sweet.

[RainDoeSprinkles]

You also asked how to bring the dynamic into the bedroom? I would say just be yourself, and have fun! It sounds like the two of you are naturally inclined toward this dynamic! Allow yourself the freedom to be playful, cute and submissive. Even being a bit bratty (if that suits you), could bring some interesting results! Hee hee! Try different fun things and see how he responds! Keep communication open. Exploring together is an adventure!

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Different names for daddy ideas? Try this: think of your husband's qualities and see if a particular animal comes to mind. For example, Shark. Then use that name along with his title of Daddy, or his given name. For example: Daddy Shark, or Stevie Shark.

Or, try Mister with his name. Mister Stevie. Or Mister Shark. Or use Kins after his title or name. Like, DaddyKins, or StevieKins. There are more ideas of course! This is just what comes to my mind. Hope that helps! Love and blessings to you both! Have fun!!

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Oh yeah! You also asked about cute little names for you! Special names are most meaningful when they come from Daddy's heart. I asked my husband for a special name starting around eight months ago. I even gave him some ideas for what sounded good to me. But other than Baby and Kiddo, there wasn't anything else he came up with...until just last month! He was in a hike, and saw something in nature that made him think of me. Then he began to call me little(+nature thing) ! (Too personal to share!) He doesn't call me this all the time. Just when he is feeling extra adoring. All that is to say, let him come up with something on his own. It may take awhile, but it's worth the wait. Let him know you'd like a special name! Let him know it would be so special if it really reflects a part of your personality that really stands out to him. Maybe while your head is resting in his lap, you could brainstorm a little! But be sure to give him time to decide on something on his own.

[littlehys]

I love so many of these ideas. Thank you so much!

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Oooh! You are very welcome!! Hugs!