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The only thing I can think that happened is that maybe the incident was very traumatic for your little side and a wall has been put up because some type of trust was broken.  I think if you give it some time your little space will return

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Is this a Daddy or just a Dominant?
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Aweee that sounds super duper hard, that would be really tramuatic to go through. I would take it slowly, n maybe try doing something you really like that makes you feel little every day and see what happens

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This sounds rather serious. I think littlespace is a very soft and vulnerable place to be, Difficulty getting in and out of that place needs to be approached with love, gentleness, patience and respect. Whether he is a dominant or a daddy, anyone who takes on the privilege of caring for a little needs to understand and appreciate the tender state that littlespace is. If you feel unsafe or that you have been violated or deeply hurt, the first thing to do is to make sure you are safe. If your partner is not taking care of you, you need to take care of yourself. Do what makes you feel nurtured and do what you must to keep yourself safe. When you feel safe and nurtured, and you have had time to heal, you may find it easier to be in littlespace again. For now, just give yourself the protection and care that every human being has the right to recieve. Sending big hugs, a warm blanket and cup of tender loving care to ypu.
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