Friendly/non-sexual DDlg hangouts in Southern California?

[Princess-Kk]

So basically my Daddy and I just broke-up. This was my first BDSM relationship. It started as M/s and turned into DDlg. As expected, this is the most excruciating pain I’ve gone through - as in its right up there with a close family member dying. I’ve just lost my best friend, boyfriend, Daddy, caregiver, and the list goes on. I would have literally done anything in the world to make this man happy and the level of vulnerability and openness and honesty in this relationship dynamic....well anyway I’m just hurting. While I’m not proud of this and wish it were different, I don’t have a support system which makes this even harder.

 

I was just wondering if there are any local groups that have friendly/non-sexual in-person meet-ups in my area (SoCal: Riverside or San Bernardino County/OC)? I’m nowhere near being ready to even consider another relationship so friendly only is a must. I tried seeing what was out there and I’m still in that “the thought of anyone else makes me want to throw up” stage. Lol. As weird as this may seem, I would really just like to be around people who understand. Any suggestions would be super appreciated!

Edited May 31, 2020 by Princess-Kk

[LittlePupRune]

So basically my Daddy and I just broke-up. This was my first BDSM relationship. It started as M/s and turned into DDlg. As expected, this is the most excruciating pain I’ve gone through - as in its right up there with a close family member dying. I’ve just lost my best friend, boyfriend, Daddy, caregiver, and the list goes on. I would have literally done anything in the world to make this man happy and the level of vulnerability and openness and honesty in this relationship dynamic....well anyway I’m just hurting. While I’m not proud of this and wish it were different, I don’t have a support system which makes this even harder.

 

I was just wondering if there are any local groups that have friendly/non-sexual in-person meet-ups in my area (SoCal: Riverside or San Bernardino County/OC)? I’m nowhere near being ready to even consider another relationship so friendly only is a must. I tried seeing what was out there and I’m still in that “the thought of anyone else makes me want to throw up” stage. Lol. As weird as this may seem, I would really just like to be around people who understand. Any suggestions would be super appreciated!

 

I suuuper SoCal area, and there are at least two groups I know, however with the pandemic I don't expect any of them to be having in person events for at least the next month if not more.

[Princess-Kk]

Oh okay....everything is open near my house: churches, restaurants, etc. In any event, thanks for the reply!

[LittlePupRune]

Oh okay....everything is open near my house: churches, restaurants, etc. In any event, thanks for the reply!

 

Another issue down here is the protests and riots. However once things slow down look for your local Little Scouts.

[SweetCuriosity]

Omg a littles meet in SoCal would be fun. I don't have any little friends and I'm an introvert irl. Meeting people makes me anxious but it would still be nice. Anywho, it's been a while since you posted so I hope you're doing better now.