2 year "relationship"

[Kkrocker]

So back in 2017, I was young and made this friend online he was in his 30s. He never brought up anything sexual the moment I met him and we talked for months so I assumed he wasn't a fake. So I asked him to be my daddy,and than he sexualized everything even my pacifier for some reason I stayed with him for 2 years, and last year I blocked him because I had enough

[Guest BigDaddyDominant]

First and foremost good for you! Guys like that are creeps plane and simple. It sounds like he was trying to pull a long con on you and once he was you "daddy" he sprung it. It's guys like that will get my blood to boil right quick. The only way I'd describe these boys and I use that word liberally is D bags. Your far better without him and you will find the right one. Don't give up hope.

[SmolAetherr]

first things first, im sorry to hear he didnt fit with you the second thing is just because he was sexual doesent mean he was fake there is a post regarding this from the admins

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/20071-fake-daddies/

 

i assume you did have a word with him about it but people can't change their nature easily and expecting people to do so is quite unfair
also as a extremely sexual daddy myself i would appreciate you didnt call people like me fake but i can understand how it may come across as predatory especially to ageRE and non-sexual littles there is absolutely nothing wrong with either side, of the spectrum the difference between a good daddy and a bad daddy is the respect of boundaries, not how sexual they are

Edited May 30, 2020 by Aetherr

[Satan]

I agree with Aetherr. Just because somebody does sexualizes ddlg doesn't make them fake. He wasn't your daddy so he didn't talk about sexual stuff as he wasn't in a relationship with you. That's respectful. What is important is that you communicated you were uncomfortable with such things. If you didn't, he can't read your mind that you didn't like it. You were in a relationship for two years so I surely hope voiced your discomfort to him. If he didn't respect you after you set your boundaries that's not okay. Two years is a long time to deal with something you do not like. I am glad you left a situation you didn't wish to deal with anymore.

 

I'd also like to note just because someone is sexual about ddlg doesn't make them "creepy". What is creepy however is using pet names with a little that isn't yours and it's also again the TOS on the site. Some users should definitely re read the rules.

Edited May 30, 2020 by Satan

[Kkrocker]

[Kkrocker]

Also told him I was transgender,but he said he didn't want me to physically transition so he could have intercourse with the parts I have severe dysphoria about (which I told him several times)

[SmolAetherr]

that's awful i am sorry, it sounds to me like it as good you left if all he cared about was having a booty call and you wanted more than just that, i totally see your point myself i dont just focus on the sexual aspect for me its maybe 60% sexual 40% the dynamic and responsibilities i'd like to think i have the right balance of not suppressing my personality and needs and actually being more than a dong with legs