Anyone do this?

[Angelwolf]

Does any one else find themselves flitting between ages while in little space? For example, I love cuddling with a stuffy and watching Disney movies but I also love binky's and wearing diapers/padding sometimes all at the same time but I'm also independent at the same time as being needy and clingy... 

Also what's your favorite thing to do after a really long emotional day when it feels like nothing can make it better (even daddy/mommy/CG)?

[Little kaiya]

[Angelwolf]

I guess my issue with daddy not calming me down is if he's on a down and I can't help him so I know he can't help me because he's got his own thing going on. He also has physical issues where sometimes he's in so much pain that I don't want to make him hurt more because I need him... you know?

[Satan]

I guess my issue with daddy not calming me down is if he's on a down and I can't help him so I know he can't help me because he's got his own thing going on. He also has physical issues where sometimes he's in so much pain that I don't want to make him hurt more because I need him... you know?

that's totally understandable. You have needs. Your Daddy has needs and physical limitations which you understand.id recommen to have little actives you can do solo.

Coloring and active books

Watching cartoons with your stuffies

 

For me after a long emotional day nothing helps me like a hot shower to drown everything out and wash away the stress.

You can have cute things like bath toys, bath canyons you draw on the walls with and can be washed off.

Bubble baths are also amazingggggggg after a stressy day.

Also you are still an adult on the day's your daddy is in pain that should be time to step up and be a big girl and help him out. You need him and he needs you.

Relationships are about working together and supporting each other. He is a daddy yes but he is human and he can't always be the strong one. I'm sure you understand this.

[Angelwolf]

Of course I understand that. When he’s in pain it’s all about him. I can’t do lots of little stuff without being found out unless it’s in the room. I only have one bathroom so showers are short and bubble baths don’t happen unfortunately. I watch Disney movies while I’m dealing with a stressful day but sometimes my nights are the worst and I can’t stay up to deal with them you know?

[Satan]

Of course I understand that. When he’s in pain it’s all about him. I can’t do lots of little stuff without being found out unless it’s in the room. I only have one bathroom so showers are short and bubble baths don’t happen unfortunately. I watch Disney movies while I’m dealing with a stressful day but sometimes my nights are the worst and I can’t stay up to deal with them you know?

I'm not sure of your whole situation but it maybe time to see a counselor to talk about things you do not feel comfortable sharing here.

 

Being little undercover can be diffcult but it's possible. I hope things improve

[Angelwolf]

I'm not sure of your whole situation but it maybe time to see a counselor to talk about things you do not feel comfortable sharing here.

 

Being little undercover can be diffcult but it's possible. I hope things improve

Tbh I’m not worried about sharing anything on here. There are four people living in my house and two are underage and would be confused by the whole thing. Especially if bath toys were found when they know we don’t take baths. My bathroom also isn’t insulated so taking a bath doesn’t work because the water gets cold too quickly. If you have any questions feel free to ask them... Edited May 26, 2020 by Angelwolf

[Satan]

Tbh I’m not worried about sharing anything on here. There are four people living in my house and two are underage and would be confused by the whole thing. Especially if bath toys were found when they know we don’t take baths. My bathroom also isn’t insulated so taking a bath doesn’t work because the water gets cold too quickly. If you have any questions feel free to ask them...

I figured it would be alright as you had mentioned Binky's and diapers/ padding. I'm sure you can find something that will help and work for you.

Showers and bath time are just my way of unwinding.

The reason I suggested counseling is you've mentioned not being able to help your daddy when he is down and how sometimes nights are the worse and you can't stay up to deal with them. Also seems there is a lot of stress. A counselor would be much better equipped to assist you than anyone on the forum. Just my opinion.

[LittlePupRune]

I haven't figured out my little age and don't plan to. I honestly dislike when thats the first question people have asked me when I tell them I'm a little. I just do what I do. I watch what I want, talk how I want (slightly little voice but not much different), act small, cuddle stuffies, but am also independent and do stuff for Sir even while little.

[Angelwolf]

I haven't figured out my little age and don't plan to. I honestly dislike when thats the first question people have asked me when I tell them I'm a little. I just do what I do. I watch what I want, talk how I want (slightly little voice but not much different), act small, cuddle stuffies, but am also independent and do stuff for Sir even while little.

I understand that. I guess my reason for the question is to see if there’s others like me who don’t really fit just one age you know? Like they enjoy things from different ages and don’t recognize as just one specific... sorry my question was worded horribly haha I’m not good at wording what I want to say...

[RainDoeSprinkles]

My little age is on a gradient scale too! It's natural for me to flow between age ranges depending on how I am feeling, what I am doing, or what circumstances require. I find I am most little at bedtime and when I first wake up in the morning. My default age is around 11, but at bedtime I sometimes use a paci for comfort. During times when I need to handle tough situations, I can easily "adult". If it's just a normal day of chores and errands and doing stuff at home, I flow between about 11-16. But my preschool age is always just a silly song away!

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Oh! And to answer the second part of the original question; my favorite thing to do after a really long, stressful day is to soak in a fluffy bubble bath with my unicorn duckie. I also love to watch Mister Roger's Neighborhood. He always makes me feel better.

[LittleTeacup]

I wouldn't say I move between little ages, but I do things typical of different ages all together. I estimate my little age between 5-7 for several reasons, one of which is because when I grew older than that I wanted to go back and had an imaginary "me" who was 5, but not shy like I was.

 

I like to play outside in the manner a kid that age might play, on their hands and knees pretending stuff or hopping around. But I don't watch much cartoons for that age range. If I do watch something, I'd rather it be something more middle like Eyewitness or the Muppet Show. I also like Golden Age 1930s cartoons like traditional Disney shorts or other studios. And I can handle objects like knives and scissors just fine even when little. And I prefer books for older kids like Newbery Award winners. Yet my attachment to my special pillow I've had since I was an infant is typical of young children. And in the stores I admire little girl's clothes and wish there were big sizes (discovering lolita was a dream come true).

 

I don't really think about what age I am. 29? 5? Somewhere in between? I didn't even realize I'm little until last year, yet was always this way. I'm just myself and do my thing.

 

My favorite thing to do after a long, stressful day that doesn't involve a caregiver? Listening (and singing if I won't bother others) to my favorite music. No matter how I'm feeling, that stuff brings the love back to my heart. I cannot hear the lyrics and remain angry or frustrated. If not joyful, I feel comforted at least. Even the angrier or despairing songs activates compassion in me.

[princessfreckles]

I'm pretty firmly a middle. I'm independent. The only little little activities I really have a coloring and watching Disney movies. After a long day stressful day what do I enjoy most? Curling up with a YA novel (right now I'm working my way through the House of Night Series) or watching a teen show or movie. 

[Guest DaddysSweetpea16]

I would say I’m usually a middle, but I do regress to slightly younger ages, as well. I’d say the youngest I ever am is probably 5-6 and that’s very rare. Usually I’d put me at about 8-12 or so. It’s honestly hard for me to say, as I don’t see myself regress or age play as much as many in the lifestyle do. I don’t really play with toys much, I do like stuffies and Disney movies but that’s an all the time thing.