CG/DD/MD Withdrawal

[Guest Minister Judas]

I've come up with a thought I'd like to bring up: Does any else go into CG-type withdrawal? I haven't been able to CG for my partner, and I think I'm starting to get shakes.

 

Don't get me wrong, I haven't been getting CG type things because of Covid issues is all.

[Satan]

I think it's totally a thing. Time zones are a pain in the butt, and I know when I'm conked out, my Daddy gets a little blue waiting for me to wake up. He says he missing the little things I do etc. Something I do to try and combat this is

I'll send him lots of messages and coloring pages for him to read and look at when he wakes up to hold him over. I also keep a little journal for him to read and get an idea of my little side doings while he is asleep, and he looks over that when I am asleep.

 

Idk if any of those things are an option for your and your partner.

Either way wishing you both well and a speedy end to this dumb virus!

[junebug0325]

Heya,

 

Just like how submissives can go through "sub drop", Bigs and Doms can go through "dom drop" (or whatever you want to refer to is as). I can say from experience that it's a thing, and it can sometimes be super rough on your mental health.

 

For example, my Daddy and I have decided to live seperately for the time being because I lost my job due the pandemic and he was still working. I have some underlying health issues and we decided it would just be for the best to live seperately while everything calms down.

 

I haven't been able to see him since April and I probably won't see him until June/July. It's been very mentally taxing for the both of us, but I think he is feeling it a lot more than I am at the moment, because he is used to taking care of me all the time. He says he misses cooking me dinner, giving me baths and helping me get changed into clothes. He has also been more depressed since we've been apart (which we expected) but I never thought I would hear him say things like, "I miss the little things you do" or "I miss taking care of you". 

 

You aren't the only one feeling this way and I'm sure a lot of Bigs feel the way that you do with CG withdrawl.

 

 

 

 

Junebug x

[Guest Minister Judas]

Wait, so Dom drop is a thing?

[Little kaiya]

Absolutely, Doms are every bit as human as subs so the same applies.

[Satan]

Both subs and Dom's get a rush of endorphins when having a scene. Same is true for littles and caregivers.

The drop happens to both parties. That's why after care of important for both the sub and the Dom.

It seems this is a temporary situation due to the virus, but it did happen suddenly. Its natural for a caregiver to miss their little / middle/ sub.

Communicate needs to happen and find ways to fix the situation even if the measures are temporary.

Edited May 26, 2020 by Satan

[Guest Minister Judas]

I thought I had just been going through withdrawal, like when I had to go to rehab for my alcoholism back in 2010.

[junebug0325]

Wait, so Dom drop is a thing?

 

Dom Drop is definetely a thing, although there isn't much about it on the internet out there. Just like how subs can experience sub drop, doms can also experience dom drop. I'm not sure if that's what you're feeling, obviously I am not a professional, but I do think that withdrawl from not being able to be a CG to your partner because of these circumstances is normal.

 

 

 

 

Junebug x