Would You Be a 24/7?

[junebug0325]

Hiya! So I was really interested in finding out if anyone here would be interested in becoming a 24/7 little/submissive/etc or a 24/7 Daddy/Mommy/etc? Why or why not?

 

This is assuming that you wouldn't have to work or worry about anything financial wise. Would you do it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Junebug xxx

[Little kaiya]

I can honestly and quickly say it would be a 100% no for me to being a 24/7 little, there are just too many things I love being an adult.

 

On the other hand I'm already a submissive 24/7. I have a day collar that I never take off that shows my submission to my Daddy.

[Lollipox]

24/7 Regression or Ageplay?

Littles are still adults who work and function, is why I'm asking which one specifically.

 

I feel like Ageplaying 24/7 would be tiring and probably mess with my head. I'd be teaching myself to become dependent, and that's an unfavourable quality I don't want to feed in to. (Not the same as being affectionate, clingy or needy because you love someone)

I don't regress though, so have no thoughts on that.

 

I am a 24/7 Little however. That's an embedded part of who I am.

[minty☆]

I don't think I could, either. There are adult things I like and definitely would not give up. I like to think for myself, and make my own decisions with my own preferences. I also don't want anyone who gets to pick and choose who I'm able to be friends with. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

I've seen 24/7 relationships where the little/sub even has to ask just use to the bathroom! Nooo way.

 

If I found a daddy/dom that was reasonable and respected my limits, I could /maybe/ do it as a sub, but never as a little.

[The Muslimah]

I'm a 24/7 little and personally love it, I am very submissive by nature and love my daddy making decisions for me, choosing what I wear, I am very childish by nature an love getting to be a kid all over again basically. I never really got to have a child hood so getting to play with toys, do fun things as a little is very rewarding and nice for me.

[BabyBekkah]

I just came out of the 'little' closet (is there a special phrase for that?) and I can already say there is no way I could mentally handle being in littlespace 24/7. For me and my Daddy, it's getting to be clear that we need to have set times where he and I both know what mindset 'version' of me is present. I also have noticed myself feeling very unlike myself if I stay in littlespace too long, I have to do something to remind me of my adulthood and come back to my pure center. 

[junebug0325]

24/7 Regression or Ageplay?

Littles are still adults who work and function, is why I'm asking which one specifically.

 

I feel like Ageplaying 24/7 would be tiring and probably mess with my head. I'd be teaching myself to become dependent, and that's an unfavourable quality I don't want to feed in to. (Not the same as being affectionate, clingy or needy because you love someone)

I don't regress though, so have no thoughts on that.

 

I am a 24/7 Little however. That's an embedded part of who I am.

 

I left it up for personal interpretation! To some, being a "little" is regression while to others it's ageplay. Everyone has very different ideas of their own headspace and their own relationships with their big.

 

Thanks for your reply!

 

 

 

Junebug x

[baby_k]

Like @pöxïë: I'm 24/7 little as it is just part of my personality. But I still work and function like any proper adult ( and that will never change ).

 

If it was some sort of roleplay or so, I could easily understand it is not something anyone could or even would want to do. But personality or such you can't really just take off.

 

If considering some relationship stuff ( and not just being little ), it might get more tricky depending on how extreme the stuff you go. Mostly you always need to have the option to have "adult talk". Again this is not needed if for both parties it is just about personality and there is enough maturity to be considerate all the times because "adult convos" come as automatic - and separate extreme bdsm play for example as just to be bedroom stuff with certain rules and limits. ( this is based on my own experience and dynamics I have been in only ).

[Punographer]

Be 24/7 in little space? Definitely not.

 

I like to think that I'm a practical person who often thinks about the world, my place in it, and how it interacts with me. It's just not realistic for me.

 

I care a great deal about taking care of my partner and being an asset to him in the good times and bad. There will be days where my partner won't be feeling so strong or so Daddy like. I want to develop the skills on how to take care of him when he needs me to be a rock. (Sometimes using words to show what we mean is hard and often not feeling perfect so I prefer to be a rock, they don't speak.) Poverty, illness, and unfortunate unexpected events are very real things. It would be terrifying to be financially dependent on someone who I don't have marital ties with and even then apprehension still creeps in on the uncertainty of the future. 

 

There are not so little things I enjoy like researching, debating, philosophy, and a constant craving to investigate the unknown. It could also be that I find myself in an ebb and flow of little and care taker in a non DDLG way. I naturally enjoy caring, guiding, and mentoring others. Helping others grow and continuing to challenge myself to keep growing intellectually and spiritually.

 

Even though, I don't think I could be 24/7 little, elements of my little spirit are always present when with my partner. He gets to see my vulnerable littleness call to him in subtle ways he show him he is always needed.

Edited May 19, 2020 by Punographer

[fragilelittlefaery]

I think I could. There may be times when I’d need to be more of a middle but it’s definitely something I’d be interested in. Having to adult is such a hard thing for me mentally. It causes me to be negative and depressed. So if I could be in a situation where I can be little all the time I would be happy.

[Guest Teasing Tink]

Nah, because I'm multi-dimensional like anyone else and therefore have other aspects to my personality which have differing needs.

[LullabyBye]

Well yes but actually no lol

 

Although I feel quite desperate when I think about worries and responsabilities of adult life, I don't think I'd be willing to sacrifice 90% of my dreams and goals to have eternal playtime

[LittleTeacup]

I really want to be me 24/7 and being childlike and little is such a big part of who I am. It's more a way of seeing the world and a willingness to not take everything so seriously. Playing is not just video games or pretend with dolls, it's creativity and innocent exploration of ideas. Enthusiasm. Last summer I volunteered to help at a children's "splash in the stream" event. I wanted to play in the stream myself, and while the other adult volunteers just stayed in the parking lot helping to sign in families and organize cars, I was in the stream showing the kids cool rocks and little shells and plants and aquatic snails! Now, I still had my adult functions and chatted with some parents about ecology and made sure kids didn't go too far upstream. Was I little or adult? This is how I am when in the flow of life.

 

Honestly, even if I never work, I'll never be fully financially dependent on a partner because my parents have the means to always support me. I'm attempting to not be financially dependent on them although I've been laid off from my current job so it'll take longer than hoped, but I can 100% count on them. I will never accept a partner who tries to cut me off from my family. And I'm mildly submissive, but not totally. I don't want a partner dictating every aspect of my life. Even as a child I made some of my own decisions. I want a partner to understand me and like who I really am, to advise me when necessary, to nonjudgmentally tell me I stink and to take a shower , and sometimes give me directions and praises when we play together.

 

Maybe I'm getting derailed from the original question because it's late and I should be sleeping. I'd like to have a fulfilling job I derive excitement from. I want to never be far from the child inside who enjoys life and knows simple right from wrong. My purpose is to spread love and peace to as many people as possible. I'm 24/7 little, but I don't regress and can do mature things when required.

[Bearly]

If I were living with my little, I'd be totally ok with being a 24/7 caregiver. I'm a gentle SFW dom who's basically a glorified best friend.

[Thequeenslittle]

I am responding to this based on personal experience with my Queen. We have had many  periods in our relationship where I have been a 24/7 submissive. I have always enjoyed that dynamic as it allows her and I to both engage in the roles we enjoy. I think that it is also something that we are able to do without it interfering in our daily lives as I can still be in school and work as a submissive. 

 

We have also in the past done a dynamic where I was a 24/7 little. I personally feel like it is completely plausible for a person to be a 24/7 little while still working and attending school which is what i have engaged in previously. My Queen just helped me find ways to make work a little task so I was able to maintain my head space without having no responsibilities. I think this worked well for us specifically as I am a middle. 

 

I think that the 24/7 dynamic can build on a relationship as long as its done right but it can become to stressful or overwhelming if both parties do not work together. I would go back to a 24/7 dynamic in a heartbeat as I felt it did work well within my relationship and I think it helped me be more confident as a person but my queen and I only do it when we both are in a good place physically, emotionally and mentally. 

[Spacegirlxoxo]

[LittlePupRune]

I am working towards being a 24/7 submissive to my Sir. However I would still be working and an adult. Currently the dynamic we are building is with intent to progress from D/s to Master/slave and possibly to Owner/property. I wear a collar constantly and have constant rules. We are working on creating protocol to build and more intimate and intense power exchange relationship. Being a little is not something I do all the time and would not want to do all the time either.

[Guest]

defiantly not, I would want my little/ middle to be my girlfriend, and would need to have serious/ adult conversations with her at points.

[LittleTeacup]

@LittleTeacup, your response made me tear up about playing in the stream ♡ soo cute you get all the bows

 

Awww, thank you!!! I love pretty bows!

 

When I first saw the event listing, I got all excited, but then disappointed when I saw the age range. I was like I can't seem like a creep by showing up without a kid. But then I saw they needed volunteers and was like YESSSSSS!!!!! The ultimate win-win!

[freekittyx3]

It’s my dream to be a 24/7 sub for my dream daddy ♥️♥️ I feel it’s the way I’m supposed to live, and I can’t see it any other way honestly.

[thesoftestprincess]

I consider myself 24/7. I am little all the time because it's just who I am, especially if i'm around my Daddy Bear. I'm not in a completely little head space 24/7 but my rules are always in place and one word from Daddy can shift my whole mood/attitude/demeanor. I don't work and am financially taken care of by my Daddy, so i think that definitely contributes to me being little more than I would be if I had a big girl job out in the world. 

 

I couldn't be in a little head space or regressed 24/7, but I am in my dynamic with my Daddy 24/7. 

[ValesKittenEEvee]

I have loved this thread, and want to first acknowledge the diversity of answers. There is no "right way" to do DD/lg or any kind of power exchange relationship. It is all what works for those involved.

 

To then throw my 2-cents in, the relationship i have with my DaddyD Witcher is diverse and ever changing, as are both and myself, as are our needs, but currently (and for most of the time we have been together), we have been 24/7. Daddy allows me to be supported as a 24/7 "middle/little/kitty/etc else i end up becoming over time" since he just allows me to show up as myself each day, whatever that self is...he just goes with it since he loves me. I do check with him about "Adult" decisions, and he makes a lot of the little day to day ones, which has brought my stress level down by like 100%.

 

I have a very *unique* job which allows me to work as a personal coach who holds certifications in Health and Life Coaching currently specializing in the field of BDSM Relationship and Healthy Habits. This allows me to work with others who are learning about their own "Kinky identities" and express myself even when at work without too much fear of judgment so far while being seen as an "expert" (Yes I totally wear kitty ear when I do Facebook Lives or give a talk). I hope my little effort helps break some stereotypes about who is into kink, since when you look at me-it's not the first thing you think of.

 

I only bring my work up i this thread, because for our dynamic to work (Witcher and I), and my business to thrive-I kinda always have to sorta be in "middle/little/kitty space" or at least thinking about kink when i work, because this is where my creative ideas come from. Its is when I close off that side of myself-my ("super hero power of sensuality") my creativity dwindles and i loose my gifts. I know this b/c i was in a relationship that did not feed my soul for several years and struggled with everything for so long...brought kinky back into my life and found a stable relationship that worked and I began to thrive again....I am not saying kink is the answer for everyone, but it allows me to feel that creativity that I use to feel when i wrote music as a child, which i no longer do for other reasons.

 

This does not me i am "never" in "adult" head space-usually when I am coaching with clients...but mostly my natural state is a happy/playful/prankster middle, so getting to be with someone who finds this lovely and not annoying is such a wonderful change-i no longer have to "act adult" i just get to be me 24/7...

 

But I hope you all (who are currently in successful dynamics) remain so for years to come, and those who are currently on a quest for the right partner find him/her/they soon and are happy for a long time to come..and if your not looking, I still hope you have a great day!

 

MiddleEve out!

 

p.s.: (got to finish cleaning before ppl show up to do some repair around the house..ewew adult-y stuff today)

Edited May 29, 2020 by ValeriansKittyLittleMisEve

[Stujw]

I want to be nappied full time

[Guest DaddysSweetpea16]

Daddy and I are a 24/7 D/s dynamic. We are DDlg, but I don’t get to call him Daddy all the time due to other people living with us. I can’t be “little” all the time because I’m also a mother so I have kids to tend to. He is my Dom at all times though, and I am always his sub. If circumstances were different I would be little 24/7 but I don’t regress the same way that some people do, I just become slightly more clingy and slightly more playful. If I had full on regression, I’m not sure I would want to be little 24/7. There aren’t so much adult things I like doing too much as I’m just not sure I would want to be in the headspace all the time. It’s my safespace and unfortunately life would go on and I don’t want bad things going on while I’m in that space or it no longer feels safe.

[Ittybittylizzie]

I'd love to at least try it out. I'm submissive by nature . I also have bad anxiety and ocd so for me little space is a calming place to be. So I'd be nice tobe carefree I was never the kid who didn't worry so getting a redo I guess of childhood would be heaven.