Do you ever feel annoying?

[Twinkletoes]

So I'll try to keep thos short

but do you guys ever feel annoying? Like when you haven't seen daddy ALL DAY and he finally gets home and the second he walks in I usually start feeling little and go into little-playful space and start poking him playfilly and gently and kissing him playfully.... But he doesn't like it when he first comes home...he says he just wants to unwind and relaxe so he snaps at me and i come out of litte space really fast and just want to cry and not be little but hide under a blankie and disappear... I know it can be annoying and I'm trying to stop... But it makes me feel bad like i dont want to be little but i do at the aame time if that makes any sense

[The Perennial Princess]

I always feel annoying - but, my papa bear always reassures me that he loves who I am. He's always happy to shower me with love and attention at all times. My insecurities are therefore solely my own and not at all due to my papa bear. I personally believe that your papa bear isn't reacting ideally to your affections and is instead reinforcing your insecurity. You should definitely tell him how his reactions make you feel. You should never have to be ashamed of who you are or have to curtail natural extensions of your personality.

 

The role of a papa bear is to make you feel special, valued, and safe. Your little side is a privilege that he should respect regardless of how tired he feels. The fact that you take the time to show him such love and adoration should be deemed a gift and returned tenfold by him. A conversation is in order that establishes what you need as a little because your feelings deserve to be validated at all times. Relationships are constant work but that work should always be rewarding. 

[Daddy'sLittlestKitten]

I have this same issue. My Daddy works at a factory and has very stressful days and is constantly snapping at me.

[Twinkletoes]

I always feel annoying - but, my papa bear always reassures me that he loves who I am. He's always happy to shower me with love and attention at all times. My insecurities are therefore solely my own and not at all due to my papa bear. I personally believe that your papa bear isn't reacting ideally to your affections and is instead reinforcing your insecurity. You should definitely tell him how his reactions make you feel. You should never have to be ashamed of who you are or have to curtail natural extensions of your personality.

 

The role of a papa bear is to make you feel special, valued, and safe. Your little side is a privilege that he should respect regardless of how tired he feels. The fact that you take the time to show him such love and adoration should be deemed a gift and returned tenfold by him. A conversation is in order that establishes what you need as a little because your feelings deserve to be validated at all times. Relationships are constant work but that work should always be rewarding.

 

He wasnt trying to hurt my feeling he knows im just being little and he apologized. He is actually very loving anf thoughtful most of of the time ....he just wanted some down time is all.... He is honestly the best daddy ever .... Hes asked me nicely before to let him relaxe before i start playing and everything .... He only snaps after i dont listen so it is kinda my fault since weve talked about it before

[Guest New Kitten]

Every second of every day

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Well if you are doing the same thing every day when you know he doesn't like it at that particular time, just stop doing it. You are not powerless. Just let him chill for a bit. Its one thing not knowing if you are doing something wrong, but if you know very well, then its totally your choice if you keep doing it.

[Vlad ziva's Owner]

Yep. I'm one of the most annoying people I've ever known, and I have to live with myself

[DaddyJsPrincess]

I try not to be but I know I kind of am. Daddy doesn't like it and is trying to train it out of me that I feel the need to ask permission to be little, or that I appologize egregiously whenever I feel like I need to have a serious conversation with him. It's conditioned into me pretty deep though. I know it all comes from a need to serve, as I am a natural-born fixer. But it just comes off as bossy and anxious I think. :/ It's not very subby of me.

[Guest buddhagirl]

Everyone has needs and everyone's needs are important in a relationship. When our partners need a little down time in order to recharge or shift gears, the kind, supportive thing to do is give that to them. If I give my partner what he needs, then he can better give me what I need. That's how my relationship has stayed happy and healthy over a long time. Our relationship works because we take care of each other and don't put ourselves first. 

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Everyone has needs and everyone's needs are important in a relationship. When our partners need a little down time in order to recharge or shift gears, the kind, supportive thing to do is give that to them. If I give my partner what he needs, then he can better give me what I need. That's how my relationship has stayed happy and healthy over a long time. Our relationship works because we take care of each other and don't put ourselves first.

 

 

 

Very true, and great advice. I sometimes need to remember this too, hehe.