I need your advice

[re_born13]

So, the first time we talked my daddy told me to don't fall in love with him and I agreed. But I can't help myself, he's so caring and loving and I fall in love with him. I've never loved someone so much as I do on him. Am I wrong for love him that much?

 

It's been almost a month since the last time he kissed me good night because few days after that he told me he met a girl. I asked him if he wants to end this but he hasn't said anything until now. I miss how he used to hug and kiss me when he gets home after work. I miss hearing him tell me about how was his day. I miss him so much it hurts. I still waiting him every night until I fall asleep and hoping I'll find him in the morning sleep next to me, hug me.

 

I don't want to face this world alone again, without him hold my hand. What should I do?

[Guest buddhagirl]

You should allow yourself to feel sad for another week. Then spend a lot of time with friends and force yourself to start to move on. Lastly, you shouldn't fall for people that tell you to not fall for them. If you can't control your emotions, don't have relationships with people that can't or won't offer you what you need.

[Darkling]

Anyone who thinks they can tell the heart what to feel, is not a very thoughtful person. 
He should have said he was only interested in X level of commitment... and you two should have spoken about it regularly.

-hugs- it is so very hard. But you will survive. Allow yourself to feel sad.. cry, rip stuff up.... The pick yourself up and do something small. Colour, just for you. Go out with cute hair. Eat ice cream with sprinkles when watching disney with your friends. 
You'll find yourself again. 

-cuddles- this is hard i know. 

[DaisyDarling]

My opinion? A Daddy who doesn't care about your feelings and demand you not feel a certain way is not a good Daddy. It's hard going through something like that, it isn't like a normal breakup. You form something so intimate in this kind of relationship. I think you need to go out, have some play dates or go out with friends. Look adorable because, as vain as it sounds, when you like the way you look it's like therapy. Don't let yourself fall into a slump because it'll only make you feel worse. <3

 

Now it's okay to feel sad. Everyone needs to mourn. But, as hard as it is, you have to start taking care of yourself and your own happiness. Still go into little space, I think that's still very important. Color, play with your stuffies, have snack time, dress up. I promise you'll feel better once you start forcing yourself to be you again.

 

**hugs** And remember you have lots of friends on here that will make you feel less lonely. If you ever need to talk, don't hesitate to PM me. You're an adorable little girl and deserve happiness!!!

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

You just need to accept he wasn't for you. A "man" that would say that needs to be left alone. The pure arrogance of that statement baffles me. But none of that is your fault. Most of us have fallen for the wrong person.

Never settle for second best just to prevent being single.

Just take the necessary time to heal. You will be ok.

[onherkneeslayla]

I'm kind of in the same boat.  I'm new to the lifestyle and started exploring my little needs with a man I met online.  We had such a good connection and I want him to be my daddy so much.  Now I found out he is married and I know he isn't who I thought he was.  Still, I am very sad and no matter what i do can't get him off of my mind.  I just keep reminding myself that he isn't what I need.  

 

{{{{hugs}}}}

[re_born13]