Reward Chart?

[newaliendaddy]

Hello! I'm new to the whole DD/LG community, so I made this account to help me be the best daddy for my little one as possible!

 

I was just wondering how you guys go about giving rewards? I already have a list of rewards to give my little, but I'm not entirely sure how to determine when she can receive them. Could I pick your brains for a bit and ask how you go about implementing this system? 

[MrWrongUk]

I like this idea. Maybe when she is just being good? Or takes your advice if it’s good. Or random times just to make her happy. That’s all I got lol good idea tho.

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

Are you in person? Because sticker charts are amazing! Also if long distance there are some great apps!

[Nymph]

I think it depends on your little's personality, I have slave tendencies and a bit of a perfectionist so if Daddy gave me a list you would bet that list would be finished at the end of the day... sometimes in the middle of the day if I got super excited haha.

 

If she is anything like me, just make sure you put things in there that will not be able to be rewarded instantly, for example instead of asking her to "take a picture of your outfit" you could ask for her "send a daily picture of your outfit 3 days in a row" so that will not be able to be crossed off in a single day.

 

If she is the opposite and struggles to do a couple of things you can use a point system and have her choose what chores she does and what rewards she exchange her points for. That way she can choose something small or "save up" for something super special.

[LittlePupRune]

I tried a few different methods with my ex. Sticker chart was fun, but didn't quite work, did an online chart of point with daily and weekly tasks, then went to an app (that I personally really liked and have used since then) called Our Home. The premise with all of these was each task gave points and different rewards were worth a certain amount of points so she could choose. I had also worked in punishments that would affect points, or if certain important tasks were not done (ex: feeding the animals, doing homework, etc) those points were subtracted. But try a few different systems and see what works. Another thing to keep in mind is what your intent is with rewards, is it to spoil, is it to reinforce good behavior, etc, that can determine how you use the rewards.