A secret code to identify DDlg people?

[RainDoeSprinkles]

It is so hard to find people (in person), who are part of this sweet community. We all tend to hide! I find that I am always kind of on the lookout for other littles. Sometimes I think I may have found one, but how to know for sure? So I have been thinking: what if there was a secret code that only people in the community knew? I have an idea of how it could work! If I saw you at the market, and I thought you might be a little, I would say a sentence with "pink" and "blue " in it. You would then answer me with a response that also had "pink" and "blue" in it, but also included the word, "heart". For example, Me: "Did you notice that beautiful pink and blue sunrise this morning?" You: "Yeah! Pink and blue sunrises are the best. They warm my heart." I chose the words based on the DDlg flag. What do you think? Oh and it could work to help us identify other Daddies and Mommies, too! Not just littles!

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

Ok first let me say how did I not know there was a ddlg flag?! Also I read a similar fourm a long time ago, and someone on it pointed out that one way some people use to identify each other is to say I have a little question for you, and if they respond I have a little answer then they are little too. But idk how many people know about that one, just wanted to throw it out there because I know some people might recognize it.

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Ooh! That is so neat! I like that! I will give it a try!

[Guest BigDaddyDominant]

Very interesting both of you

[LullabyBye]

That would be really nice, since the "I have a little question/little answer" code can lose sense in other idioms.

 

I've also seen something about drawing a crown on your hand, but idk if it is exclusive to the Age Regression community or if it could apply to DDLG as well.

[LittlePupRune]

You could flag. Leatherfolk flag a lot (I almost always flag in public) and so it could easily be done with a hanky. Either using the ddlg flag or a similar hanky (I’d honestly flag hunter green for Daddy/boy).

 

Edited to add: I'm talking about the gay/leather/etc hankie flagging code.

Edited May 1, 2020 by LittlePupRune

[Guest Princess_Karol]

First of, is there a flag for DDLG? I didn't know that but... aren't flags just for LGBT+ community? 

Second, I prefer to remain unknown, especially in real life, plus I would never be able to remember that "code", I mean, In a random situation a person who randomly tells me a sentence with "pink and blue" in it would just weird me out ahah

Oh and what if someone, like me for exemple, doesn't like those colors? 

[LittlePupRune]

First of, is there a flag for DDLG? I didn't know that but... aren't flags just for LGBT+ community? 

Second, I prefer to remain unknown, especially in real life, plus I would never be able to remember that "code", I mean, In a random situation a person who randomly tells me a sentence with "pink and blue" in it would just weird me out ahah

Oh and what if someone, like me for exemple, doesn't like those colors?

 

There are a couple flags out there designed for cg/l. One is like the leather flag with the black and blue stripes with a red teddybear in the middle, but there’s more out there. Flags are often for LGBT communities but with leather having grown from the queer communities it also has a culture of flags, and since cg/l is under the bdsm umbrella there can be a flag for it too.

[Guest SoftPrincess]

I’d love to meet littles in person but I’m also worried about making them uncomfortable... Someone I know irl is following ddlg tags on Instagram and I wanna say hi, me too! But at the same time what if they don’t want to be noticed and haven’t realised people can see what tags they’re following? It’s hard

 

I have no idea the etiquette round these things :/

[LittlePupRune]

I’d love to meet littles in person but I’m also worried about making them uncomfortable... Someone I know irl is following ddlg tags on Instagram and I wanna say hi, me too! But at the same time what if they don’t want to be noticed and haven’t realised people can see what tags they’re following? It’s hard

I have no idea the etiquette round these things :/

Generally the etiquette is you don’t out someone and you don’t bring it up unless its an appropriate setting. Now, you can drop hints or bring it up yourself (like bring up something about yourself that indicates so that gives them the option to engage or not) but otherwise keep it subtle. Otherwise if you meet at an event that’s another place where its appropriate to bring it up (once this quarantine is over). That’s the general rule of thumb in my community.

[Guest SoftPrincess]

Generally the etiquette is you don’t out someone and you don’t bring it up unless its an appropriate setting. Now, you can drop hints or bring it up yourself (like bring up something about yourself that indicates so that gives them the option to engage or not) but otherwise keep it subtle. Otherwise if you meet at an event that’s another place where its appropriate to bring it up (once this quarantine is over). That’s the general rule of thumb in my community.

 

Thank you! I think that’s why I’ve not said anything because I don’t want to be inappropriate. I’ll keep this in mind for sure!

[Feisty_cute_angel]

I read a post on insta and someone draw a crown on the back of their hand to represent they are little and if a little ask the answer or ask with a little question

[XxCottontailxX]

I know 6 other littles that I know in person, and we decided that we would use blue and pink thread to make braided anclets and bracelets. And anytime we find another little we make one for them to.

[RainDoeSprinkles]

I like that bracelet/anklet idea. But I like the question/answer one too because if someone asked me the little question but I wanted to keep my littleness hidden, I could choose to not to answer in a little way. But if I felt like letting the other person know, then I could! I had a situation in a really cute, small store where other women were talking about being like a big kid. I chimed in that I felt like a kid too, and I really thought they might be littles, but alas, there was no way to know for sure, and the conversation ended...maybe with all of us wondering!

[Vampiress]

Do you guys have a picture of the DD/lg flag by chance?

[LittlePupRune]

Do you guys have a picture of the DD/lg flag by chance?

I have found two:

 

the CG/l or DDlg pride flag which is based off the leather and puppy and bootblack, etc flags with black and blue stripes and superimposed red teddy bear.

 

The other is the Little Space flag which is yellow, blue, pink, and white.

 

There may be more out there but those seem to be the two prevalent ones.

[Vampiress]

I have found two:

 

the CG/l or DDlg pride flag which is based off the leather and puppy and bootblack, etc flags with black and blue stripes and superimposed red teddy bear.

 

The other is the Little Space flag which is yellow, blue, pink, and white.

 

There may be more out there but those seem to be the two prevalent ones.

 

Thank you for sharing, those are very cute!