Things that pull you out of the little space

[Guest clumsy_little]

Hi! You all can post what pulls you out of the little space

 

 

Usually when Im upset or get hurt due to clumsiness, I immediately slip into little space. But when someone tell me to be mature, make fun of me or tell me that it isn't that serious and that I should just suck it. It pulls my out of my little space.

 

[Jt_the_sadist]

Playing pool will pull me out, sometimes showers instead of baths will too.

[Guest clumsy_little]

Playing pool will pull me out, sometimes showers instead of baths will too.

I can agree on shower one

[princessfreckles]

Honestly, being around my family pulls me out of little space, even mentioning them will as well. Bringing up grownup things such as politics, serious current events, work, personal budget, general adult responsibilities, etc will pull me out real quick. If I remember a personal bad memory, am overcome by depression or anxiety, that will also take me out of little space. 

[prince eefy]

Sometimes being around family or seeing something inappropriate online. It won’t fully pull me out, but it will make me uncomfortable.

[cuddle_prince]

For me I get pulled out by my family or grown up topics. When I get uncomfortable about something too much in little space it will pull me out too. Sometimes seeing Adult images will shock me out of it too. 

[junebug0325]

Honestly, being around my family pulls me out of little space, even mentioning them will as well. Bringing up grownup things such as politics, serious current events, work, personal budget, general adult responsibilities, etc will pull me out real quick. If I remember a personal bad memory, am overcome by depression or anxiety, that will also take me out of little space. 

 

Same for me. A lot of times, if Daddy is on his phone reading stuff (most of the time it's about current events or politcial articles) and he says something about it or I look over his shoulder and see it, it will pull me out of little space completely. 

 

I also tend to have things that trigger flash backs that will shock me out of little space and require me to actually communicate as an adult to my Daddy about what is upsetting me so he can help me get through it.

 

 

 

 

 

Junebug x

[HugsAndNaps]

i can only be in little space when i'm completely alone or with my boyfriend

being around my family or other people will pull me out completely, same with being sad/hurt/upset/jealous/depressed etc.

i am extremely sensitive and i find that anything negative will always pull me out and i find it very hard to get back in bc i'm afraid, that's why i can only really be in little space when i'm with my boyfriend

[Cinnabunny]

Things that pull me out of middle-/little-space:

• spontanous feeling of stress 'cuz of work / appointments
• sudden serious talk with friends (even tho is was kinda little-based at first)

these are the two biggest things that can pull me out instantly - and i hate it ><

[sleepykittybaker]

Anxiety usually over my mom finding my little space stuff

[aa.ng]

Honestly, being around my family pulls me out of little space, even mentioning them will as well. Bringing up grownup things such as politics, serious current events, work, personal budget, general adult responsibilities, etc will pull me out real quick. If I remember a personal bad memory, am overcome by depression or anxiety, that will also take me out of little space. 

yesss. this is me. i feel that anything that is triggering can pull me out, because I need to confront it. as a little, with little space and mindset, it would feel all too overwhelming... 

[aa.ng]

I feel like i try to stay in my little space, even when going outside with my bf, but i pull out of it really fast when i notice people are looking at us. we are pretty vanilla in terms of how we interact in public, just him holding my hand, and walking ahead of me, or speaking to me really gently... but it is not the normal relationship dynamic for sure. 

[Vampiress]

Stuff like anxiety, stress, adult responsibilities, feeling self-conscious. I'd say those are the biggest ones. 

Edited December 24, 2020 by Vampiress

[You'reAWoozle]

My biggest thing is work and school :/

School itself isn't stressful, but I'm a crazy overachiever. I graduated high school a year early, and I'm about to get my associates a semester early. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in all the schoolwork that I can't even begin to sink into little space even if I feel like I need to

And work... My coworkers suck booty and make me mad and I end up in this weird half little-half adult spot where I want to throw a tantrum and cry for a while but I can't. Both of them suck but it's okay.

[Guest Dandy Blob]

If I think I am being rejected/abandoned I almost immediately slip out of little space, even if I am talking to a little friend at the time & they suddenly stop replying for a few minutes...my little brain just freaks out & I can't handle it.

 

If I think I am being made fun of...this doesn't ALWAYS happen..it really depends on how I am doing mentally that day.

 

My boyfriend calling me from work immediately pulls me out of little space. He usually calls when he is upset or bored, and usually has to vent about things at work and I that immediately pulls me out of little space & makes me very frustrated cause he calls SO randomly sometimes and sometimes like 6x a day. lol I love him but oof that messes me up a bit!

 

If someone is talking about some serious issues while I am little (like in chat or a discord server)...sometimes I seem to switch quickly between little & big and other times it just takes me right out of it.

 

Sometimes anxiety...but anxiety also puts me into little space too when I am around my boyfriend. Also confusing.

[Bearly]

Being told I'm wrong will pull me out.