Is big me being silly???

[Guest LittleInNeedOfFriends]

I need help.

I’m in a relationship with someone who isn’t a daddy (he knows I have a daddy fetish but said he’s not interested therefore doesn’t know of my little side). It was never an issue before because we lived apart and I could be little alone at my house, but I’m staying with him for quarantine and I can’t be little. It’s killing me. I crave it.

I find myself becoming very antsy and moody (almost bratty) because I’m suppressing my little side every second of every day.

 

Am I being ridiculous?

[Guest BabyMelanie]

No you aren't! I'm 23 and still living at home with my parents. I know it's not exactly the same but I understand not being able to always be little. I'm stuck at home too right now and I completely understand. It's killing me to not always be able to act as little as I feel *hugs*

[Guest LittleInNeedOfFriends]

Oh I’m sorry *hugs* I hate knowing others feel it too this sucks

[Nymph]

quarantine is making us all a bit silly/grumpy.

 

You can always be little, unless your version of little is quite extreme and it's babbling and wearing diapers, you can probably get away with most things without looking too weird. The most innocent thing WILL look weird if you make a big deal out of it.

 

Example, you download some very childish game apps, your guy notices and asks you what is up with that, you just answer "it reminded me a game a used to play as a kid so I am trying it" end of story.

 

What do you usually do alone at your house?

 

A lot of guys hate "the daddy fetish" until they realize they thought it was something different, try to be yourself without labels for now.

[babygirlAbbie2]

Just let him know how you feel, or just be your normal little self and see what happens. 

 

I'm also stuck at home with my parents and can't be little all the time or be with my daddy, you can always join us on the chat or PM me!

 

Hope things get better,

 

     Abbie     

[SmolAetherr]

dont suppress it then, excuse yourself and let him know you want some alone time and go be little, or ask him if he minds you being little around him but that you respect his desire not to be involved

[Vampiress]

Eventually it might be something you need to talk about, if he isn't into it then he can at least perhaps tolerate you handling littlespace on your own instead of you feeling you have to suppress it fully in his presence. Your feelings aren't silly, though. It is always hard to be your real self no matter what it is, especially when the fear of judgment or negative reactions is a real possibility.