Need advice.. Please help?

[Wittle_moon_babygirl]

Hia everyone! First i wanted to say hello I'm Wolfy.

 

Now onto what I need need with:

Daddy and I looked for a 3rd cause originally daddy wanted another little and I agreed.. Wasn't really sure at first, but then we found a little that was perfect for us and our relationship.. It was awesome and nice to have another person to talk to and play with.. Then daddy met my family at easter and decided he didn't want this third and that he only needed me, and I was so happy and excited about this.. But now I feel sad... I miss having a sissy to talk to and play with.. I miss having a third... But I don't wanna tell daddy this cause I don't want him thinking that he's not good enough cause he is and I'm in love with him.. But I can't help feeling that empty feeling a lil you know? Do I just ignore this feeling? What should I do?

[Alaskan Daddy]

As in any relationship the feelings of both partners matter. You should be able to brings your feelings to your daddy and expect him to respect your feelings and try to understand them. Just as he should be able to do the same to you. Their should be no judgement when you express your feelings. If your daddy has an open mind he will embrace your feelings and help you deal with them. If he can do that then your empty feeling will pass sooner. This other little was a part of your life and it sounds like she had a place in your heart. My other thought is 'how would you want this other little to be involved in your life now'?

I hope this helps. 

[Little K]

Alaskan Daddy, has a good point. Communication is key when it comes to relationships and if there is something that is bothering you it's so essential to talk about with your daddy, or whomever youre in a relationship with. I'm having a sort of similar problem with my own daddy and through this forum I learned that by bringing up my feelings and just talking them out with him, it brought a sense of relief and just lifted this weight off my shoulders. 

 

It is also important to know how you want to bring apart this other little in your life, just like Alaskan Daddy said. There's always a way to fulfill both of your desires to the point that you all are happy!

[Guest Teasing Tink]

What about just being platonic friends with the other "little"? Would that work? If not her, it can be someone else. It doesn't have to be a third. It sounds like maybe you're just desiring a "little" companion, ya know? Lots of us are that way. Nothing wrong with wanting a close friend.

[Vampiress]

If he doesn't want another little and that did initially make you happy, perhaps you two can start a compromise and maybe you can just have little friends that you can play with and talk to but aren't involved with your Daddy. Maybe you can even make friends with another couple and you can have playdates with another Daddy's little and your Daddy and their Daddy can be friends too. I'm sorry you miss the other little so much, I hope you two can be friends though I imagine it's possible she feels sad now and maybe needs some distance.