Little + Little Relationships? I'm confused..

[Guest Oh Noes Sonos! ツ]

I hope I posted this in the right section, but as the title states. I'm quite confused on where to go with this, technically I fall in switch category of things, Originally I would have called myself a Little or Daddy. But I keep finding myself more interested in being with a little, while being a little as I primarily am generally 95% of the time, It's confusing me so bad. I mean yes I would like to have a caretaker in my life but that doesn't interest me as much as being with a little one. and it confuses me greatly.

 

Am I the only one?
Is this a thing?
Is there a term for it?

>< I'll accept any form of input. Please and thank you.

[RavenclawPrincess]

Yeah, this is a thing. You can have a relationship with anybody you want as long as it's safe, sane, and consensual. Plenty of littles partner with other littles, with switches, switches partner with each other, etc. It doesn't matter as long as it's a happy and healthy relationship, so there really isn't anything to be confused about or a need to question your wants. It's all good buddy, so just go for the type of relationship dynamic that you want to be involved in. 

[Satan]

The cool thing about ddlg is you can literally do whatever you want. You don't need a term for it.

If you wanna be a little and have a little (which I've seen others do such a thing ) go for it.

Heck maybe you can find a little and have a platonic caregivers that looks after both of if that's something you'd want.

 

I understand feeling confused. I used to think I was a little but now I am leading more as a Dom that likes little stuff.

But again it's a lifestyle you can do anything with. No one makes the rules (well other than rules for yourself lol, but ya know).

 

I am not sure if that was helpful at all but that's my veiw on it.

[Guest Oh Noes Sonos! ツ]

This makes feel so much better about myself. But my question is how do you explain that to someone say example when you're trying to find someone what would I even say to explain that?

[Vampiress]

Well if you are looking on a site like this or in places where you know other people are into DD/lg just let them know you are a little or a switch who is a little most of the time and that you are interested in another little more than a Caregiver.

 

If you would be open to a Caregiver to take care of both of you let them know you are okay with that in the relationship, or whether you'd prefer complete monogamy (though you can find a Caregiver that is platonic). Or maybe as littles you can both look after each other. I think you've done a good job explaining what you believe you want, so just say in more certain terms exactly what it is you're looking for and if someone is interested in that too then they'll probably respond. You might also find another switch who prefers to be the Caregiver most of the time and then you can both switch on the occasional times you'd rather not be little and they'd rather not be Caregiver.

 

However, if you try to look for this in general and try to seek it in vanilla people your results are going to be very variable.

[Guest Oh Noes Sonos! ツ]

I've done the vanilla relationship for many years, and it's just becoming a problem so much so I gave up on it, I am not currently seeking a relationship, but I am if that makes sense? More like if it happens it happens kinda thing. I do appreciate the input. I am not very good at getting what I want to say out in text but I hope people can understand what I meant.

 

Thank you everyone to whom has replied.

[spillingfluids]

I’m a switch daddydom/littleboy with a little girl though recently I’ve been more into being a little, so you could say that at times I’m a little in a relationship with another little

 

Feel free to ask me anything

[LittleTeacup]

I'm a little, but I also feel like a big sister around certain people. Ending up in a relationship with another little, where I still enjoy all my little things but also look out for their best interest and coo over how cute they are, is possible for me (as long as they're not a brat because I'm no brat tamer). I also dream of having a caregiver, but I don't want to close myself off to a good match. I'm interested in being part of a poly family, so maybe I'll get both, but who knows. I do know that little/little relationships are ok and possible!

[Guest Oh Noes Sonos! ツ]

See it makes me feel there is total hope out there, this has been driving me bonkers for ages. It is good to have likeminded people to talk to. (:

[Jt_the_sadist]

There's nothing wrong with being a switch! I am very switch-y and I am happy with it. I am a little with my Daddy (sometimes), but I am also a pet, a Top, a bottom, a sadist, a masochist....

 

Being a switch just gives you more sexual diversity in my opinion.

 

When I first got with my Daddy, I warned him about me being a switch and how I might not always be little for him and his response was simply "Variety is the spice of life." LOL