I’m not really sure how to talk to my significant other...

[MrsBuckyBarnes]

Hi! I just decided to look up “how to tell my boyfriend I’m a Little” and this is one of the websites that came up. So I’ve known that I was a Little for a few years now. I also experimented with BDSM but I wasn’t very comfortable with it. I think that I’m just better with this. I’m submissive but I also go into my headspace with a child’s mentality.

So I recently started dating this guy in January and I’ve had a couple conversations about it with him. He told me at first that he only wanted to be called Daddy during sex. And then I talked to him about it again, explaining to him that it’s not just a sex driven thing, but an entire headspace that I slip in to. So he told me that he was okay with that as long as every time I called him “Daddy” it wasn’t just because I was horny. Which I understand. I think it was that he thought I was constantly horny when in fact, I was just slipping into my headspace.

But I’d like to have another conversation about it with him. Except I’m SO insecure about everything that I say and do. Especially when it comes to being a Little. It’s hard for me to convey my feelings but I don’t want to text it to him. And I’m not sure how to explain this to him or how to tell him that maybe I want to experiment. I know that my fears are irrational but that doesn’t make them any less real.

 

Does anyone have any advice for me..?

[PrincessEmily]

Hi dear, I decided to answer you because communication is SO important. The thing is that your post doesnt completely let me know what is stopping you from talking to him, is it fear of being judged? do you feel safe with him?