Unexpected slips into little space...

[MissPattch]

Hey everyone, Just looking for a bit of advice from other littles who have a bit more experience than i do. I've only been playing with my little side since January, and sometimes i find my self slipping into my little space completely out of the blue, or at totally unexpected times with unexpected triggers, and it almost always leaves me feeling defenseless and a little bit confused and upset. I have some issues with self control, as in i like to be in control of myself almost constantly, but when this happens, i feel like things spiral away from me and i have a hard time regaining my sense of balance.  Did any one here have trouble when they first started exploring little space? Did you have any techniques for managing or dealing with sudden slides in to it? How long did it take for you to become more fully aware of the things that trigger you? Any advice or moral support would be so welcomed >.<

[potato]

I can give you lots of moral support because I'm the same!! But I haven't found any ways to control it.. So I'd like to know too ^^°

[MissPattch]

I can give you lots of moral support because I'm the same!! But I haven't found any ways to control it.. So I'd like to know too ^^°

 

 

Thanks, Nashina ^^ I didn't know it was gonna be this tricky to navigate lol

[plushprincess]

hiii cuties,

it is common that littles who just recently discovered their new world are confronted with situations, that before maybe weren't even a deal, in which it is difficult to decide whether to just let go, or to "be big" for some time until they can float off.

i personally know this feeling of uncontrollable confrontations and prompt triggers too. i know my little side for four years now. of course, as i learnt more and more about this new world, i got to know my adulting part from a new perspective too. i developped a lot of discipline and awareness about when i may, can and like to drift off. it did take a lot of effort to sort out all the situations in which i really can't shrink, but it's not finished either. i still get in new situations in which i have to judge, what would be appropiate.

when i do feel like just letting go in a more serious situation/enviroment tho, i try to talk to myself, that i can go off as soon as it is appropiate again. this can be really really hard sometimes, but for me personally it is worth the effort. because that way i can garantee myself the safety and calmness that is required to truly enjoy little space. (yeah, i'm saying i take responsibility for myself .o.)

lastly it also depends on a) how old you are in your little format and how deep you want to dive in.

sorry for this long response now ^^ just tried to explain my point and maybe help a bit c: