Do people ever find people in the personals here?

[little1grl]

Just wondering if there are success stories of people who found their Daddy or little on here. Especially if they are living in the same city or close by (vs just online relationships).

[Jemas]

well its up to who sees it .. but love can be found anywhere

[Guest ♥️ Hayden Babygirl♥️]

I have found a few of my partners here

[little1grl]

Kitty were they LDR or in person? Personally I really don’t like the idea of LDR even though I know it limits me.

[Guest ♥️ Hayden Babygirl♥️]

LDR

[MissPattch]

My Daddy and i didn't make a personal, but he found me on here, we're a little bit LDR, but close enough to get to by train, so is not so bad...

[NewPrincessBrat]

I'm still looking for mine on here and other places,I was on Reddit but deleted.

[Alaskan Daddy]

I have had several littles that I have met on here including my current little. I have never put out a personal posting here or responded to a personal posting on this site. I have chatted with some very wonderful littles on this site. Because of where I live all my DDLG relationships have been LDR

[NewPrincessBrat]

I've never seen you until now,Hello.

[little1grl]

I don’t know I feel like I’d have a hard time with a LDR but maybe I should consider it... it’s so hard to find someone locally. It’s just that I don’t really feel you can get to know someone that well over online. Maybe it’s better if you video chat but still... I know it limits me though. I live in a city but not a major one like NYC or Boston.

[MissPattch]

I know LDR can be really tough, and they take a lot of effort until you can close the distance, but they have plus sides too. You don't get caught up in a rush of hormones and intense feelings, having that time apart means you can be more rational about how you feel, and it gives you time and space to really talk on a level you might not be able to do in person. Being Long Distance does throw up some unique challenges, and really emphasises the trust you need to build, but not being in each others pockets all the time gives you space to do that ^^

[princessfreckles]

I haven't. Then again I'm not most Daddy's type for a few reasons. Also, what I'm looking for is pretty specific. The main one is that I want a RL dynamic, not online. 

[little1grl]

One of the disadvantages I see with LDR is if you want the relationship to move to a new level, one of you has to move. I’m totally not ok with the idea of never being together, ever.

 

But first off, I can’t move. Second, even if I’ve known someone for a long time online, I don’t feel comfortable having them move into my apartment or house. And even if I could move there’s no way in h3ll I’d move into someone’s house that I’ve only been with online. For one you can’t really know if someone is an abuser until you’ve spent some in person time with them. (Though- one of the signs of an abuser is the relationship moves too fast so that’s probably hard to do online). Also I don't really think you can get to know someone very well if you’re only interaction is online. That’s just my feeling.

Edited April 13, 2020 by little1grl

[little1grl]

I haven't. Then again I'm not most Daddy's type for a few reasons. Also, what I'm looking for is pretty specific. The main one is that I want a RL dynamic, not online.

Why aren’t you most Daddy's type?

[MissPattch]

One of the disadvantages I see with LDR is if you want the relationship to move to a new level, one of you has to move. I’m totally not ok with the idea of never being together, ever.

 

But first off, I can’t move. Second, even if I’ve known someone for a long time online, I don’t feel comfortable having them move into my apartment or house. And even if I could move there’s no way in h3ll I’d move into someone’s house that I’ve only been with online. For one you can’t really know if someone is an abuser until you’ve spent some in person time with them. (Though- one of the signs of an abuser is the relationship moves too fast so that’s probably hard to do online). Also I don't really think you can get to know someone very well if you’re only interaction is online. That’s just my feeling.

 

 

With an LDR, it doesn't have to be all or nothing. In between meeting online and moving in with each other, there are a lot of things you can do to build the relationship, just like you would with one that wasn't LDR. You can arrange dates, where you could meet up for the day, or if thats too much too soon, you can video chat, and have virtual dates and stuff. Its about making it work for the individual. Interaction doesn't have to just be online, voice chats and snail mail is still a thing. I personally don't think a little bit of distance should be a barrier to finding somebody who you match well with. The pool of possible Daddy's / caregivers is a LOT smaller if you only look on your door step >.< But i agree, LDR isn't for everybody, heck, the distance even gets too much for me some days, but it won't be for ever....

 

*edited because i repeated my self

Edited April 13, 2020 by MissPattch

[Vampiress]

I agree. You can totally visit each other as many times as you can before you decide to move in together, but maybe they can get a job and a place to live on their own for a while near you. There definitely has to be some compromise in LDR, though. Whoever moves, it's a big change for something that might not even end up working out, so honestly it's probably better if you have the opportunity to visit as much as you can before committing to living together! If you consider LDR, obviously someone in the same country is best. If you can get someone in the same region that's even better. It's not impossible, but it's something you and the other person have to be serious about. If one of you has excuses all the time to not meet or do stuff together it just isn't gonna work. I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do!

Edited July 8, 2020 by Batgirl

[daddymind]

I know LDR can be really tough, and they take a lot of effort until you can close the distance, but they have plus sides too. You don't get caught up in a rush of hormones and intense feelings, having that time apart means you can be more rational about how you feel, and it gives you time and space to really talk on a level you might not be able to do in person. Being Long Distance does throw up some unique challenges, and really emphasises the trust you need to build, but not being in each others pockets all the time gives you space to do that ^^

 

^ This. Exactly my feelings/thoughts on my LDR. We have met twice after about a year of chatting and video calling. We spent that time in private airbnbs living like any couple would. It just reaffirmed all our hopes and the time apart is painful, but also enlightening. LDRs are very special in that they allow you the time to really filter out the noise. It makes you ask questions like "is this person really worth going through all this for?" - for one of you to eventually move and give up your life in another place to be with them. It's the best test there is - inconvenience. Inconvenience on a whole other level, especially when we're talking different countries. If you are willing to go through that, you know it's special.