Why is it so hard to find a caregiver :-(

[Guest babyjunioruk]

I personaly would love to find a caregiver to look after me and treat me the way i am...

i wear 24/7 for fun and got my own adult baby cot (to share)

but don't understand what I am doing wrong to find someone and nice to make friends with others 

its not about s** but to me its more then the loving and caring side and being looked after

I hope someone can help.....

[Little kaiya]

Finding a caregiver isn't about doing anything right or wrong. It isn't some magical trick or secret.

 

It's really just finding a partner and that takes time getting to know someone. It takes time to find someone who is compatible in many areas. It can't just be about being a caregiver either. It takes discussing interests, life goals, communication styles and more.

 

Get involved in your local community, get out and meet people with goal goal of getting to know them versus just finding a caregiver. Above all, be patient and focus on getting to know people as people instead of finding a caregiver.

[Guest Minister Judas]

As Little kaiya said, make a point to try to connect with your local scene, at least online. You may not find what you are looking for very quickly, but you will be more on a good path to finding a Caregiver that would suit your needs.

 

Just have faith.

[LittlePupRune]

Another thing to consider is that relationships are exchanges between people. You can consider explaining what you have to offer in return to a partner. But like the others have said, it takes time to get to know someone and not only are you looking for personality compatibility but also cgl/kink compatibility which is yet another layer on top of basic relationship compatibility. Maybe start with finding community (local is easiest) and just getting to know people without focusing on finding a partner.

[jaredstone363]

As everyone has said, you're not doing anything wrong. It just takes time, be patient and try not to worry over it.

[Bearly]

It takes time and effort and, from what I've seen, there are far more littles than there are caregivers.

[Guest Rye_Curiousity]

Exactly, it takes a long time to find someone that's right for u. I have been in the community for a few years now and I've met a few nice littles but it just didn't work out. Sometimes it's hard bc we feel alone and like no one wants us. But u gotta put that out of ur thoughts and keep trying. Bc it will happen for u. I suggest music as an outlet for these feelings. It always helps me maybe get up and dance a little. Sing along or just have some fun and remember we all have difficulty ur not alone

[Vampiress]

It takes time and patience. It helps to meet people in the community, but sometimes you can meet someone who wasn't aware of the lifestyle and might be interested after you explain it and introduce it to them slowly. 

Edited December 24, 2020 by Vampiress