In desperate need of ADVICE

[Princesspunzie21]

Hi,

 

Im really looking for some advice on a situation i appear to have been in and seems very odd, i was talking to a person claiming to be a daddy dom from a different site we only spoke for a day and had two phone calls both of which felt strange, this person was very good at keeping me in little space ect and it seemed quite pleasant getting to know each other, then all of sudden after a 2 hour phone conversation, I'm blocked gone, couldn't speak to this person, that was it, so as a little i got a bit upset and then moved on, and a couple of days later, i appear unlocked and this person pops up claiming this person had a new sim and a new phone, i dont know how legit this is because i got my little friend to say something to him like 'hi' and he blocked her too, also his activity has been still booming on this other site where i had been blocked but not unblocked, so i questioned it and the last message i said was that i hope he wasn't messing me about as i was very confused about the situation and then, blocked again, its really strange, i feel like this person is messing about and I'd be warned, its just not adding up at all, oh ive also still not even blocked from this other site I'm a very confused little (i will add i was only chatting and wouldnt use the word daddy after a day before anyone jumps me)

 

Thanks for taking the time to read, from princesspunzie21 xoxox

[Guest Acenya]

If I was in your situation, I wouldn't spare any more time worrying about this person,

he clearly doesn't have your best interests in mind so it would be best to block the person and move on.

It is unfortunate that they are playing some sort of game and got you sucked  in it for a moment,

but you deserve so much better than that.

I don't know what site you were using when talking to this person,

but it's always good to report sketchy behaviour and people to the site's admin.

I'm sure you'll meet more decent people if you stick around!

Take care of yourself.

Edited April 8, 2020 by Acenya

[Princesspunzie21]

Thank you so much lovelie, it was from fetlife which i know can be dodgy anyway but i really hate the game he is playing.

[Vampiress]

Sounds like a total weirdo and really creepy. I'd definitely block him on your end and if he ever tries to contact you another way just immediately block. This person sounds super sketchy and untrustworthy and it's best to leave all that behind as quickly as you can and stay away from it. Make sure your friends stay away from him, too.

[Guest jennybaby]

awhhh punzie he doesn't seem like a genuine person who deserves your time, affection,nor general awesomeness! I agree with Acenya and Batgirl, you should just keep your distance

[Princesspunzie21]

Thank you, i guess not, its just strange that's all, i have blocked him on my end 100% that's it i think i got blocked the second time because i was onto it, so they left, it jus didn't seem legit over message this morning, so its over and thank youuu guys for being so incredibly supportive and sweet!

[Guest Teasing Tink]

That's upsetting. I'm sorry you experienced that. And yeah, FL doesn't seem to be a great place to meet good people.

 

It sounds like the guy you were chatting with may be trying to hide his communication with you from someone else whom he allows to look at his FL whenever that other person wants and is using block/unblock as a way of disappearing all of your chats in one swoop to do that. It archives messages when you block someone on there.

 

So unless the person "looking over his shoulder" so-to-speak knows to check the archived messages, he can turn girls on or off as he pleases to hide his behavior. Perhaps his overwatcher doesn't know about the other site he uses, so he doesn't need to block you there.

[Emillia]

Honestly? He seems very untrustworthy. He might be a cheater, or worse.

Either way, it looks like he clearly has something to hide. I would advice you to block this person and to not contact him again. If he tries to contact you, you should keep ignoring/blocking him. I don't think this guy is gonna be worth the stress for you, you deserve better than getting turned off and on whenever he pleases... I'm really sorry you had to experience that.

[Vampiress]

Not only is he not worth the trouble and stress, my fear is that he might also be unsafe. I just don't trust his vibe at all from what you were saying about him.

[Punographer]

1. He’s a fuck boy.

2. Move on.

3. The end.

[Princesspunzie21]

honestly thank you so so muchhhh, i totally get it, update I BLOCKED HIM TOO, no more contact has been shared sending big hugs and love to all of youu       honestly restoring my faith back in this community knowing i have support xoxox