Protective Middles?

[princessfreckles]

Hey quick question to my fellow middles. Are any of you protective of your little friends with younger little ages? I'm not a Mommy Domme at all, but for some reason when it comes to my friends who are littles (which is basically all of them, I know very few middles) I feel like a big sister. I've always felt super protective over my close friends IRL, and since getting involved in DDlg and kink as a whole, that has extended to my close little friends IRL and a few online. Does anyone else feel like that with their little friends? 

[Quirkygrl16]

Hey quick question to my fellow middles. Are any of you protective of your little friends with younger little ages? I'm not a Mommy Domme at all, but for some reason when it comes to my friends who are littles (which is basically all of them, I know very few middles) I feel like a big sister. I've always felt super protective over my close friends IRL, and since getting involved in DDlg and kink as a whole, that has extended to my close little friends IRL and a few online. Does anyone else feel like that with their little friends?

Totally. I'm very protective of my friends and those younger than myself.

[Lili_Night]

Absolutely! I am completely protective off others that are younger than me. I used to be an admin in a group on kik, and I had several littles come to me to ask if I was a mommy because I always took care of them when they needed help. I had to explain to the that no, I wasn't a mommy, but a middle with a protective big sister vibe. Lol

[Quirkygrl16]

Absolutely! I am completely protective off others that are younger than me. I used to be an admin in a group on kik, and I had several littles come to me to ask if I was a mommy because I always took care of them when they needed help. I had to explain to the that no, I wasn't a mommy, but a middle with a protective big sister vibe. Lol

So relatable

[Feisty_cute_angel]

Absolutly which is why in my friend group irl i’m considered the mom of the group or big sis. I get very protective is someone messing with my loved ones.

[spillingfluids]

Yeah, for sure!

Even though my partner who is a 6 year old little isn’t really comfortable with me being anything other than a daddy, when I am in middlespace as a 1-11 year old middle, I’m very protective of her. But that’s just how I am normally.

[LittleTeacup]

I'm not really middle, but I identify as a little girl with a big sister instinct! I grew up as the oldest child, born before my brother and close cousins. The closest relative older than me is my uncle who was 16 when I was born, so not exactly a playmate. Put another way, I was always the eldest at the kids' table on family holidays.  My parents have an adorable picture of 4 year old me reading a little golden book to my 2 year old brother.

 

My closest friends don't need much protection, except sometimes my bug-phobic friend needs rescuing from a spider or bug. I like getting to be the hero then! I have a particularly anxious and shy friend though who I do take the lead with. She doesn't drive so often I have to convince her I really don't mind picking her up and going somewhere. Last time I saw her was in January a week after my birthday because she wanted to buy me lunch, but she was embarrassed I did all the driving to her house and then to the restaurant. I'm always reassuring her I like being around her and she's very nice.

 

Not only shy people, but with younger people I'm like this too. Last fall when I got my job at camp and lived on site, I found out my roommate was the youngest new employee at 17 (she turned 18 during the fall). Of course remembering what I was like at that age, I quickly tried to assure her I would look out for her and gave her all sorts of advice about my own experiences, but it turned out she's quite mature. I joked she was 5 years ahead and I was 5 years behind so we met in the middle and got along great. But because she didn't have a car I ended up driving her to the town often for groceries and to the bus station to go into the city. I hated when she had to use an uber or lyft and told her I didn't care where I was, she could text me and I'd go and get her. It's a bit strange because she's so mature and nonjudgemental I feel safe expressing my little personality around her, but then I want to be her big sister at the same time.

 

And on here I love giving advice to the inexperienced, even though I'm inexperienced too with real relationships. I want everyone to know they can be who they want to be! I could probably never be a mommy domme because I'm just not that dominant. The big sister is mostly nurturing and only wants to help. I'm only firm when it comes to following others' rules (or the law, like refusing to allow underage drinking). And ok, if I decide I'm your big sister I'm dominant in the way of I want to be involved in your life and be good to you. (Or maybe that's just being assertive instead of passive.)