New Little- Advice please.

[Guest DaddysTinyPrincess]

I am very new to this. I have a boyfriend thats a daddy. Iv'e always wanted to be a little. Even though my boyfriends a daddy i'm still scared to become little around him... does anyone have tips on how to get into little space? or feel less scared? Also i can't see my daddy because of the corona virus situation so i would need to be able to know how to text in little space or get into little space over facetime. Thanks for the help.

[Guest Sassy.Little.Princess17]

Hi hi. In my situation there is a lot of baby talk texting. Baby talking over text isn't hard you add or remove letters or changing letters out like

You=chu/yous

Water=wawa

got=gots that kind of thing. You an also make baby talk your own by replacing words you use when your big with your own version of baby/little talk.

 

As for over the facetime... Make sure you have stuff that makes you feel little with you. Like blankets and pillows and stuffies and other things. And Baby/little talk comes into play here too. except you speak it and/or have him speak little/baby to you.

 

I know it's not a lot of info But I hope it helps a little bit.

[Guest ~*BabyDoll*~]

Hello, well first off, welcome to the community!    Its super awesome that you are exploring this side of yourself and are working on figuring your little side out! Some tips in terms of getting into little space:

 

*Coloring silently with a cartoon in the background, or a Disney movie of some sort! That is, if coloring is your thing for being a little!

 

*Organize tea time with stuffies/dollies! You don't even need a tea set, just get some cups and a pitcher! It will be fun!

 

*Movie night!!!! Any movie or show that gets you into little space, some popcorn/candy/snacks, a soda, stuffies/dollies, blankies, pillows! 

 

*If you are into video games, any video games that get you into little space! That is if you are into it!

 

*Reading books, little books that is! My personal favorite: Chicka Chicka Boom Boom!!

 

These are of course what get me into little space when I find it difficult. Without a doubt, each little is different, has different wants, needs, and likes! So what works for me, might not work for you. So please keep that in mind if you plan on trying any of these out!

 

Feeling a little less scared can happen when you are new into this. Showing this side of yourself can be seen (or at least I saw it) as such a vulnerability. I would suggest showing him little at a time, your little side that is! On face time, just start showing him stuffies/dollies, telling him their names! Show him what you colored, drew, wrote! Do that little by little till you start feeling more comfortable! If that doesn't help, or if you don't feel comfortable over facetime, of course do it by text! And even if that feels like too much, talk to your Daddy. Explain to him what you are feeling. Explain that you are feeling scared, maybe you guys could talk it out and maybe he could help you make your little side come out easier!

 

Texting in little space, just like the comment above (who did a great job explaining this!), just change the lettering! Her examples are amazing, I will just add some extra!

 

*Daddy (if you want another option): Dada

*Love: Wove

*Bottle/Sippy cup: Baba, Sip Sip

*Please: Pwetty Pwease

*Thanks: Fanks

 

Changing "L"s to "W"s is a small but easier way to do baby talk during text! 

 

I am super sorry if this was really long, but I just wanted to give you my insight! I hope this helps! xxx

[Lilith-Lynn-Lupin]

I agree with the above keep things around you that are little. I have a big walk in closet. I bought cute blankets that I put on the wall with my baby blanket to sit on with pillows and stuffies all around, and my little toy bag. When I am in that area I am only allowed to be little, there is no adulting in that area. I retreat there when I am having a hard time getting into little space. Then when I am deep in little space it is easier for me to stay there when I leave my little area. Also my Daddy can put me into little space just with his actions and voice. He might ask me to draw him a picture, he will send me a list of everything to have with me when we meet for play dates. My paci, my hair in pigtails, whatever activity he decides we are going to do, my sippy cup etc.. If your boyfriend is a true Daddy he will think you are the sweetest cutest thing. When you are little it makes your Daddy happy. It is give and take. You ultimately have a lot of  control. You are giving him a precious gift. It is his job to treasure the gift you have given him. Just my opinion. I hope everything works out with you and your Daddy!!