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I’ve been pretty comfortable entering little space for a while. It’ll come in short bursts or even very suddenly so that if I’m alone at home, I need to stop what I’m doing and “be little.”

 

But no matter what activity I do - taking a bubble bath with bath toys, watching cartoons, laying on a big pillow watching the fish in my aquarium while holding my stuffies and sucking my thumb... no matter what! - I almost *always* quickly turn very sad. I think I’ve only had one “happy” time in little space.

 

This has been ongoing for so long that I’m actually starting to get frustrated with myself about it.

 

What’s the deal? Has anyone else experienced anything similar? What can I do?

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Train, I'm sorry to hear most of the time when you're in little space you feel sad and frustrated. I'm thinking about what it can be, but I think some more information will help. What is the sad feeling? Is it located anywhere in your body? Are you having sad thoughts and if so, what are the thoughts? Are you always alone when you're in little space? I'm sorry I only have questions for you.

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Hey Train, i know the feeling you are describing, i don't get it as much now, and almost always at bedtime when i do. For me, its because i feel vulnerable and alone, and stressed about having to adult when i really just want to be little and looked after. 

 

I'm trying to put my self in my little space during the day more, on my terms, so that when she sneaks out at bedtime, its not such a shock. 

 

Maybe you could try to limit the time in your little space, so that you are back to being "big" before the sad hits? To try and change the feeling associated with it to a good, positive one? And then slowly extending the time you spend there, maybe?

 

If you need to talk, feel free to add me <3

  • 5 months later...
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I also have this problem. I've been into the whole little/daddy/ddlg/cg/abdl for such a very long time (yes I know, dont be underage and little its bad) I know that now. But back then I didnt understand it, so dont judge. But, for 6 years now. And, only the first year ever of littlespace I never had the sadness or discomfort problem (besides sometimes feeling disgusted with myself and crying) I honestly am not sure why it happens to me, littlespace is supposed to be a space where I feel safe, and loved and taken care of. I honestly think it has a lot to do with my old heartbreaks, and the feeling that I can never find exactly the care I'm looking for, like stevop and binkie. I've gotten into a very serious relationship, and were very close to hitting a year, hes new to the whole dynamic and quite frankly no matter what he says about liking it he just doesnt seem interested in actually learning about it much, or paying much attention to it. But he tries for me to make me happy and smile, like washing me, lol. It even happened when I was single, I felt so sad when I got into littlespace, it's like a full body feeling and discomfort and sadness, I'd love help finding out how to fix this aswell. But, I'm sorry I had no direct answers for you. I hope you're doing better now. Edited by WolfQueen420

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