A Muslim little

[Littlemuz]

So I'm a little for almost 3 years now but whenever it comes to daddies I never seem to find a daddy who doesn't want sexual stuff, sometimes good daddies text me and they are all sweet and nice and I already imagine things building up but then all of a sudden when they ask for nudes and I apologize and tell them it's not my thing they start ignoring me... And I don't wanna get hurt so I don't build up any trust in daddies who text me no more.. How do I know if... A daddy.. Likes me.. And.. Doesn't want me for sexual stuff... Or what if they manipulate me into sending..... How do I know.. I'm so insecure already by the amount of daddies who tricked me and then ghosted me..

I just wanna be loved and cared for and be babied... I just.. Can't.. Send...

Am I wrong? Or am I being extra sensitive?... Idk..

[Little kaiya]

The most important advice I can offer is stay true to who you are, your values and what you are looking to find. The right person is put there but it will take time to find that person. No, you aren't being over sensitive, there are Daddies out there who will respect you for who you are as a person.

 

Try not to build things up in your head. Get to know the other person as a person before adding DDlg components in the discussion. If they are the right person they won't mind getting to know you first, heck they'll probably insist on getting to properly know you first.

 

Personally, have I sent my Daddy nude pictures, yes I have BUT He NEVER asked me to do so, it was my choice and my decision. It also didn't happen until after we had been together for over a year AND I trusted Him AND we had a solid foundation to our relationship AND we had discussed long term relationship goals AND He had collared me.

 

You can NEVER go wrong staying true to yourself and if someone ghosts you for doing that it just tells you more about them than anything else. Heck, it's probably a blessing in disguise because anyone who would try to manipulate you into things you aren't comfortable with isn't much of a potential partner let alone a decent caregiver.

 

Stay strong, stay true, be patient. Good things come to those who take the time to find them.

[Vampiress]

All I have to say about those "daddies" is: EW! They clearly don't care about anything important other than sex if they're treating you that way over nudes! I really don't understand people who are so demanding about those and sex. Just because someone is little or submissive doesn't mean they're obligated to do all those things unless they agree to it. I feel like littles and submissive get this a ton because we're considered "vulnerable" and they believe that by our very nature we'll just do what we're told. This isn't true though, and don't let it be true of you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you or your preference. There's lots of non-sexual littles and I firmly believe there are Daddies who are the same or at least willing to respect it. Trust me when I say there is pretty much always going to be people who are into something and that includes Daddies who like what you do. Keep on being you and don't let these creeps pressure you into something you'll regret. Your boundaries and limits are yours and anyone who disrespects that isn't deserving of you.

[Littlemuz]

The most important advice I can offer is stay true to who you are, your values and what you are looking to find. The right person is put there but it will take time to find that person. No, you aren't being over sensitive, there are Daddies out there who will respect you for who you are as a person.

 

Try not to build things up in your head. Get to know the other person as a person before adding DDlg components in the discussion. If they are the right person they won't mind getting to know you first, heck they'll probably insist on getting to properly know you first.

 

Personally, have I sent my Daddy nude pictures, yes I have BUT He NEVER asked me to do so, it was my choice and my decision. It also didn't happen until after we had been together for over a year AND I trusted Him AND we had a solid foundation to our relationship AND we had discussed long term relationship goals AND He had collared me.

 

You can NEVER go wrong staying true to yourself and if someone ghosts you for doing that it just tells you more about them than anything else. Heck, it's probably a blessing in disguise because anyone who would try to manipulate you into things you aren't comfortable with isn't much of a potential partner let alone a decent caregiver.

 

Stay strong, stay true, be patient. Good things come to those who take the time to find them.

[Littlemuz]

Hehe thankchu this sorta gave me a hope imma wait for the right daddy hehe ur Def right.. I always feel like they r rushing things and literally no future plans or anythin so yea.. Imma work on that for sure ❤️❤️❤️Hehe wuv chu

[Littlemuz]

Hehe thankchu this sorta gave me a hope imma wait for the right daddy hehe ur Def right.. I always feel like they r rushing things and literally no future plans or anythin so yea.. Imma work on that for sure ❤️❤️❤️Hehe wuv chu

[Littlemuz]

All I have to say about those "daddies" is: EW! They clearly don't care about anything important other than sex if they're treating you that way over nudes! I really don't understand people who are so demanding about those and sex. Just because someone is little or submissive doesn't mean they're obligated to do all those things unless they agree to it. I feel like littles and submissive get this a ton because we're considered "vulnerable" and they believe that by our very nature we'll just do what we're told. This isn't true though, and don't let it be true of you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you or your preference. There's lots of non-sexual littles and I firmly believe there are Daddies who are the same or at least willing to respect it. Trust me when I say there is pretty much always going to be people who are into something and that includes Daddies who like what you do. Keep on being you and don't let these creeps pressure you into something you'll regret. Your boundaries and limits are yours and anyone who disrespects that isn't deserving of you.

[Littlemuz]

Ur right "sighs" I dunno why they think so but imma work with this tho. Imma wait and see, hopefully the rught daddy will be there