LDR

[Becs]

Me and my daddy are in a long distance relationship and I'm so happy to have found him yet I feel scared. He's assured me many times that he only speaks to me and I trust him completely but i always get nervous that he might meet someone else that lives near him. Should I te alk to him about it or should I leave it?

[Guest Lavendar Bunni Wubbins]

Always talk about the things that bother you or worry you, no matter how small it is. Just let him know that you still have worries & just need extra reassurance. Communication is very important, so letting him know what might be bothering you, upsetting you, etc, will help you both to find a solution & move on to bigger & better things!

[Little kaiya]

If you don't talk about things when they're small they can become something much bigger.

 

Explain to him you trust him and aren't worried he's speaking to other people, more that you're nervous about what could happen in the future.

 

My Daddy has been very clear that if something is bothering me He wants to know. I feel like most Caregivers feel the same way.

[MissPattch]

Is always best to talk about the things that are bothering you, especially if they involve your feelings. Bottling it up, or holding it all in will most likely make it worse, think of a bottle of fizzy, it can only take so much shaking before it explodes, and then its even more work to clean up the mess >.<  Everybody has insecurities and issues, for what ever reason, but sharing them with your Daddy will give both of you the best chance at working it out. He's not a mind reader, and its not fair to let him think you are doing ok if you really aren't. Be brave <3 Tell him everything, even the hard stuff <3

[Guest Looby-Lou]

To echo the others, it's always good to talk! Maybe sort it out in your mind if you can - what exactly worries you. And then you'll have an easier time explaining it to him.

I think it's normal to sometimes worry our partner might meet someone else - but you need to believe he's not looking for that and wouldn't be unfaithful to you even if the opportunity arose. 

 

You don't say how long you've been together. Or if you were both originally looking for something closer to home but happened to find each other and hit it off. 

If he says he's only talking to you and is happier with you than anyone he could find closer to home, then believe him. Otherwise the doubt might rot away at what you do have - trust is so important.

 

Plus in this current climate, no one sensible is arranging IRL meets, especially with someone new! 

 

Wishing you both happiness,

Looby