Daddy’s And Babygirls

[Guest CrimsonRoseSwitch]

I have a question for daddies I know that daddies have more than one bbygurl does this mean he doesn’t value me or love me any less and why do daddies need more than one heartbreaking

[Guest QueenJellybean]

hiya! 

resident polyamorous little admin here!  

 

i have two Daddies, & we're all in happy, functioning, healthy relationships.

while polyamory isn't the norm in our community, it *is* growing to be much more popular than it used to be. 

i can understand it not being everyone's cup of tea, but i want to cut this off at the root here & say that i'm going to let this topic stay as long as it 

doesn't bash consensual, happy polyamorous relationships. 

 

it doesn't mean that you are valued or loved any less.

it also doesn't mean that if polyamory doesn't make you happy that you should settle for a Daddy with multiple partners. 

there are lots of monogamous folks out there still.  

but people who choose to have more than one partner in consensual settings where everyone is happy, communicating, and in full agreement of the situation 

is perfectly valid, too.  

 

so, i don't think what you're really asking here is "why do daddies need more than one?" ... because they don't *need* more than one.

some people have more than one relationship because it fills them in a way that monogamy can't. 

 

i'm sorry that you personally have run into a lot of daddies who are polyamorous, and i hope that you find a monogamous one that works for you.  

[Guest Minister Judas]

I agree with the above stated.

 

While it can be hard, it is best to understand what it is that YOU want as opposed to what other Daddies want. I can verify that when I've had more than one little at a time that I have treated them equally and loved them implicitly. I can say that, while Baby can be sometimes be a bratface, I love her and appreciate her Dada's assistance with her.

 

I understand it can be heartbreaking if it feels like a partner doesn't regard your feelings when it comes to such things, and I always encourage communicating that. If you can be okay with being with a Daddy who has multiple littles, that's cool. If not, that's okay, too. As long as both parties consent to such a dynamic, that is great. All relationships are great, so long as everyone consents.