is it always awkward going into little space in front of someone for the first time

[Guest Phosa]

my partner is totally fine with ddlg and is supportive of it but ive just been having trouble not feeling awkward when i go into my little space and try to talk bc idk what to do or say? idk if its bc its technology my first time being open about this with someone and im just scared of rejection later?

[LittleTeacup]

It could just be because you're not used to sharing your little space, or if you had bad experiences in the past. When I meet new people, not even potential romantic partners, just anyone new, I tend to get really stiff and shy. Because being little for me is a personality trait, I can't suppress it forever, but I also want people to take me seriously. I'm also somewhat nervous about nasty comments, although that fear is decreasing with age. I'm always a bit unsure and awkward when I start to let my little self slip in around people, but it fades as I experience neutral or positive reactions.

 

When you're little by yourself, what do you do and say (or think)? You can do those same things in front of your partner. There's no one right list of things littles have to do or say. We're all different. If you just want to sit and color a picture for your partner without saying anything, that's ok. Or if you want to chatter about your favorite cartoon or toy that's ok too.

 

Maybe you could also tell your partner that you're feeling awkward, and ask if he/she can help ease that feeling by doing something you like? Reassuring you maybe?

[JustALittlePrincess]

Honestly i think it's just a time thing youll get there

Youre sharing your vulnerable space with someone it's normal to be a bit shy and nervous

[chateautal]

Yes - being little around someone is revealing a very vulnerable part of yourself. Hopefully it's also nice (provided your partner returns the trust you show to them!) - and the more you do it together, the more comfortable and the less awkward you should (both!) become!

[Guardian_Witcher]

I think of your partner makes you feel comfortable, especially in other situations where you can see that character trait in them shine, then it gets easier.

[Little kaiya]

Try not to focus on what to say or do and instead just live in the moment. When I'm with my Daddy sometimes I'm little, sometimes I'm not and sometimes I go back and forth between the two. If you just live the experience instead of overthinking it then it can become satisfying instead of awkward

[Guest Phosa]

thank you for all of the replies its rlly helped a lot i rlly appreciate all of ur replies and advise ^^