tips for new littles?

[Guest Phosa]

hello im a little new to this community and sometimes i just dont know what to do to please my caregiver (sfw way) or how to not be shy about going into a little space 

[JustALittlePrincess]

For the caregiver things, how about asking them and seeing what they say!

As to feeling shy...why do you feel like you need not to be? there's nothing wrong with feeling shy or fragile about going into little space it's a very sensitive state of being!

[Guest Phosa]

Okie thank you :3c

My first experience with this was being shamed for it I also just didn’t meet the right person when I came into the community

[RainDoeSprinkles]

When my husband and I first met, it was my childlike qualities that made me attractive to him. I recommend that you just be yourself around him. In all new relationships, we never reveal the deep things in the beginning. As you get to know one another, and trust is built, you will gradually feel safer and more comfortable letting more of your little side be known. Time and earned trust will open the door for both of you share more about yourselves with each other.

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Oh! Another thought; about pleasing him...again, as you get to know one another, his likes and dislikes will become clearer to you. As your relationship grows over time, you will naturally discover how to brighten his world! I have been married to Daddy for 23 years, and I am still learning!!

[RainDoeSprinkles]

[LittleRosiePosie]

Well, I've been fiddling in the littlespace world for a few years now and I still feel a bit shy going into littlespace. I've kinda been shamed out of it... But WHEN I've had CGs, I found the best way to please in a SFW way is to colour them some pictures, follow your rules, be cute and bouncy and fun when you feel up to it ^-^