Not All Littles Are The Same - Nor Are Their Carers

[Sleepybabie]

Not All Littles Are The Same - Nor Are Their Carers
Ok, this is a small pet peeve of mine: posts that are geared towards a specific side of the Little community (eg the regressors or the carers) and is stated as if unequivocal. Examples would be posts that tell carers exactly how to treat their smols or how regressors feel.
I’m here to say that your little space has no set limits.
• You want to swear when you are little? Go ahead
• Your carer doesn’t baby talk you? They’re still a fantastic carer as long as you’re happy
• You play adult video games when little? Fantastic!
• Your carer and you chat like normal and you have no baby voice? Adorable!
• You hate punishments or rules? Valid af!
• You’re “bratty” but your carer finds it funny? Still a good relationship!
• Hate all pink and baby stuff and regression is just an emotion for you? Still invited to my pizza party.
• Your husband does not baby talk you nor does he feel that his reaction to you will pull you in or out of little space . This is just as valid and acceptable as what is touted as “traditional” carer/smol relationships.
Please, if you’re a carer who has been made to feel bad because a post told you that you’re not “baby talking” is ruining you partners little space: you’re not! If you’re worried, then talk to them! But don’t rely on a post online.
If you’re a Smol who has been made to feel bad because you’re not into “traditional” little stuff: don’t! Your little space is yours! Talk with your carer if you have one if you’re feeling bad and make your own decisions on what helps you be little.
Thank you.

Edited March 7, 2020 by Sleepybabie

[Guest LostFox]

I couldn't have said this better myself....thank you for posting this!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

an important reminder. 

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Excellent post, thank you for sharing

 

It comes up frequently - TOO frequently - "am I really little" or "am I too old/big/bossy to be little" or "Do I have to punish my little?" etc.

 

It's great to ask each other's opinions or seek advice, but we all need to remember to own our opinions and not voice them as if they are fact, or as if one way of experiencing DDlg is better than another way.

 

If you identify as "little' then you ARE a little and have every right to be one.

If you identify as a Caregiver, Daddy, Mummy etc. then you ARE one!

 

Looby

[Sleepybabie]

Excellent post, thank you for sharing

 

It comes up frequently - TOO frequently - "am I really little" or "am I too old/big/bossy to be little" or "Do I have to punish my little?" etc.

 

It's great to ask each other's opinions or seek advice, but we all need to remember to own our opinions and not voice them as if they are fact, or as if one way of experiencing DDlg is better than another way.

 

If you identify as "little' then you ARE a little and have every right to be one.

If you identify as a Caregiver, Daddy, Mummy etc. then you ARE one!

 

Looby

YESS!!!!!!!!! you understand!

[Sleepybabie]

I couldn't have said this better myself....thank you for posting this!

You are welcome