Help????

[DaddyorPrincess]

Im a versatile (Can be dom or little) and I dont know what to do. I am genderfluid and pansexual. How do I look for a partner??

[MrBonesWildRide]

By being open and honest about who you are and what you want. Really, that's all there is too it. If they aren't comfortable with your preferences then don't bother pursuing them. 

 

Don't make your identity everything, but definitely make it clear that you have these identities and they absolutely make up a part of who you are. 

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Same way as anyone else, just be honest and open. Might be a little more complicated. My son is gay and says its easy for me cos I am straight. But its not easier finding the right person, but I suppose it just takes less effort finding prospective partners.

Join Fetlife. It can scare people, but its not all loonies and freaky psychos who want to chain you up in a cage (unless thats what you want of course). Its also full of genuine people looking for their type. I met my daddy there. Join relevant groups, ignore or block the losers, and see whats going on.

Again, I have had to wade through many morons on there to find my perfect man, but thats how it works. Just take it easy. If you do decide to join, ask me anything.

[lilvioletcub]

The general term is Switch I'm not saying thats what you have to use but thats how most will reconize what you are talking about.

And yeah no right way to go about it just be open and honest and eventually you'll find the right one