Is there a shortage of mummies?

[Guest Articsquirrel]

Hi I was chatting to an asexual female little friend and she just can't find a mummy in the UK  who isn't into diapers, or will just give hugs cuddles and  affection.

She is really attractive and has it all...so am baffled.

Is there a shortage of bi and lesbian mummies in general?

[Little kaiya]

I wouldn't say there is a shortage of bi or lesbian mommies to be honest.

 

CG/little relationships are like anything else in that they are very individualistic. What one finds attractive or interesting, others may not. What one wants in a partner will be very different from what the next person wants.

 

I think the bigger issue perhaps is that a lit of people seem to want to jump right into CG/little relationships without taking the time to get to know one another. I honestly believe if more people took time to build a relationship before jumping into this dynamic they'd be more successful in finding the right partner they are seeking.

[Guest gekki]

there is a shortage of mommies in general. they are either dommie or nonexistent. I a friend of mine would love to find a mommie to explore his little side with but there are none to be found.

 

send more mommies world!

[redheadprincess98]

I agree. I have yet to find a mommy to explore my bi side with her... there are a few switches which im not really into and thats it... idk why but probably because women can actually be or are mothers in general and are fed up with babies?

[Guest Looby-Lou]

It's not something I've looked into but off the top of my head I'd guess yes, there's less mummies in general, of any sort.

 

When I look at discussion threads, or Personal listings, there's very few mummies participating. 

 

Mainstream singles find it hard to meet someone, so anyone in a minority group is going to find it harder. I think, sadly, your friend is a minority within a minority.

 

But there ARE mummies out there and I hope your friend will find someone and have a wonderful relationship!

 

Looby 

[Bubbles_and_Feathers]

I do think mommies are somewhat less common, but also, being asexual myself, I know that can also narrow your chances a fair bit, unforunately.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

as stated above, while mommies are less common, they aren't impossible to find. 

 

a few quick searches here will find you a whole host of mommies!

[chateautal]

Hi I was chatting to an asexual female little friend and she just can't find a mummy in the UK  who isn't into diapers, or will just give hugs cuddles and  affection.

She is really attractive and has it all...so am baffled.

Is there a shortage of bi and lesbian mummies in general?

 

Well, for sure she is looking for a minority within a minority within a minority (i.e. a woman who is both a top within the kink scene, and also a Lesbian, and also looking for an asexual partner), so she might need to look a bit longer than average. And she might need to put more effort in to actually find a partner (which is always tricky, since being rejected, or just not finding suitable people, is often very demoralising).

 

However, it could also be that she's looking in the wrong places for what she's after. If all she is looking for is "just" hugs, cuddles and affection (and is not other, unusual-among-the-general-population stuff like diapers, or punishment play), then that doesn't necessarily require a full on MD/LG relationship - she might also find such nurturing and affectionate girlfriends within the more 'vanilla' dating pool than exclusively within the kink scene (I'm sure there are women like this, who don't even know about md/lg).

 

It could also be a case of her 'branding' too. Unfortunately, the flip-side of looking for something unusual is that it becomes a seller's market, and so the burden is on your friend to attract someone. When searching for any kind of CG, it's very easy to come across as needy (or worse, selfish)  when an ad ends up looking like a shopping list of what they would like some else to do for them, rather than spending the effort to describe what makes them a special person worth spending time with in the first place. Of course CGs enjoy a bit of neediness (it is part of the fantasy, after all - and some even like clinginess a lot!) but with that also comes a desire for affection and deep friendship: a CG wants to feel like a Daddy or Mommy, not a doormat! 

 

My recommendation, if she is posting personals, would be to focus at least 50% of it on non-kink related topics (like hobbies, life aspirations, etc.) - and if she is approaching people directly (e.g. on fetlife) by messaging them, to not even mention kink *at all* (or more than 1 sentence indicating her general intention to ultimately look for a Mommy), and instead focus on something interesting within the other person's profile that makes them think they could get along as friends.

Edited February 25, 2020 by chateautal

[Guest Articsquirrel]

Wow...thank you for all the help...I will try and help her tweak her profile xx

[DaddyWanted]

Hi I was chatting to an asexual female little friend and she just can't find a mummy in the UK who isn't into diapers, or will just give hugs cuddles and affection.

She is really attractive and has it all...so am baffled.

Is there a shortage of bi and lesbian mummies in general?

There is nothing wrong with ur friend or anything there is just a shortage of mummy dommes ESPECIALLY in the UK,... Unfortunately,...I have been coming across the same problem,... Ever since I joined Fetlife but it would be REALLY helpful to ur friend to join it too as well as ABDLMatch.com and Feter (app) because she may b able to find one or more on any of these (especially Fetlife and ABDLMatch because ABDLMatch doesn't always involve nappies as some of the mummys or daddys aren't into nappies)

I'm also on POF too x

Edited June 8, 2020 by DaddyWanted

[DaddyWanted]

I wouldn't say there is a shortage of bi or lesbian mommies to be honest.

CG/little relationships are like anything else in that they are very individualistic. What one finds attractive or interesting, others may not. What one wants in a partner will be very different from what the next person wants.

I think the bigger issue perhaps is that a lit of people seem to want to jump right into CG/little relationships without taking the time to get to know one another. I honestly believe if more people took time to build a relationship before jumping into this dynamic they'd be more successful in finding the right partner they are seeking.

I REALLY like this and agree fully